2006-10-04 23:16:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When u break up with someone it is usually very painful but u will get over them in time...make sure u have friends around u to cheer u up.
2006-10-04 23:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep ur self busy and u will eventually get over him or if it is bothering you too much talk to him or email him at least he will read it so he will know how you feel bout him.. plus there are a lot of guys who would love to go out wit you... also he may of not been the one maybe that certain someone is still out der for you hope this helps good luck xx
2006-10-05 06:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Miss_Party_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a broken heart truly never heals....u will just learn to live with it...try in any following relationship u have try not to hold some of urself back because then u are preventing urself from really experiencing love again....i have a broken heart at the moment we are stupidily trying to be friends he seems ok but i am having a tough time
2006-10-05 06:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all go through this at some stage and most people say keep busy and dont think about it to much however i think the best thing to do is feel sorry for yourself do nothing for a while and give yourself as much time as you need as you have to deal with all this hurt at some stage and putting it to the back of your mind is only prolonging it.Its very hard at the moment but time is the best healer just look after yourself you will gat through this and be a stronger person for it good luck and take care
2006-10-05 06:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ive been in that position before i know how you feel and i cant say its a nice feeling its horrible i felt like i had nothing left or i coulnt love again i miss him so much after 2 years i,ve dated they have been in love with me but i havnt felt the same even though i wanted to so much it hurts because he was the 1 and only person thats on my mind and will be the 1 ill ever love but you have hust got to be strong it will take time but as the days move on you will feel less emotional i was heartbroken and i dont think my heart can mend but i do want him back hes told me that he wants to be with me but something happened between that time which then i lost contact i,ve moved in my own flat and i think hes moved but im gonna try his old contact numbers because i need him he does not jnow where i am but hunny i hope your o,k tell him how you feel hes the first1 i ever fell in love with i,ve never felt love like it its lovely but love hurts too
2006-10-05 06:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by forshawjennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a wonderful guy and he loves me very much but we temporarily broke up.. i talked to him asked why because i didnt understand what went wrong..he then told me it was because of commitment scared about making a long term thing wasnt sure if he was ready again to be in a relationship that was serious. talking is the biggest thing to a relationship and lack of it can ruin it or even destroy it. dont think about the future u might never get their or it mite be different from what you think. think of today and tomorrow you never know what mite happen..if u want him then fight for him but remember you can only fight so much then you have to realise when to give up.. xx :)
2006-10-05 06:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by infinitie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a horrible thing to go through..
But dont try to contact him, to convince him he wants to still be with you..
The best thing to do is to keep busy! Dont let yourself reach for that phone.
See friends, make new friends, go out & have a few drinks, the male attention you will get will also make you smile!
Time is the best healer honey.. x
2006-10-05 06:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lula Mae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This so familiar and right now you think you won't cope without them anymore. Try and keep busy, focus on other things. Go out with friends, exercise, do anything to keep your mind occupied. I know its cliched to say, time heals etc, and now you are thinking, no never but believe me it does. We all go through it at one time or another. Keep your chin up..good luck.
2006-10-05 06:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Saskia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that you deserve better.
You Have the rest of your life.
You Don't need a SO to be alive.
It may hurt , yes , but it won't hurt forever.
Love yourself First and Foremost.
Don't waste your life loving people who don't love you.
2006-10-05 06:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his decision doesn't have anything to do with who you are, i too was brokenhearted and felt it was the end of the world, but i moved on, met some one else, and ended up better than i ever was. just because he doesn't love you doesn't mean someone else wouldn't find you wonderful and loving.when one door is shut god will open another door for us.
2006-10-05 09:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋