me n my bf was going round 4 7 mths. he met his ex gf wen he went home n he started having feelings 4 her. n den wen he came back he told me dat he doesnt luv me n he luves her. i tried to explain him dat i luv him n v can b toghther. but den he said we dont match at all, v r too different n we r not compatible. however i tried 2 explain him dat we can but he is like no! n he said he is really compatible with dat gal n he has promised her n dis time he cant go bk on her. but rite now dat gal is in india n he is her with me in uk. n he feels lonely here as he doesnt have close ones dat many inact none here. i want him back! i luv him 2 much!!!! temme plssss....
2006-10-04 22:56:09 · 34 answers · asked by divs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know it’s hard to let go of someone you really love. How about you? You don’t have any love remaining for yourself.
I’m in this situation before. i thought i can't get away with so much love with my ex. When we are together i really felt the time he’s sad every time. Instead of being happy seeing him like this, I asked him while i was crying that how much love you still have for me compared to the other girl. When he answered me “little”, I cried and wounded deeply on what I heard. I set him free, but it helps me to be a stronger and better person. And every time we see each other he just always telling me that he misses me, he’s single now because they don’t matched and he told me that he loves me still. But it’s too late, I got a new one whom I love soooo very much compared to him.
Just make him realize your importance while both of you are separated. Give him space and time to make him realize who he is missing so much.
2006-10-05 00:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by herzae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont U Think U deserve A Perfect Luv?If he can Leave u 4 some X gal Friend then if he came back 2 u then how can say he ll never leave u....n it ll Hurt more.....i can Feel From Ur Question That U r a Gud gal...I wonder how long you'll be together and I wonder how long it'll be until either one of you become unfaithful. ........ don't doubt the feelings of "love" you have for him, or the feelings you share with each other, but if he is your first and only love....so........U can Tryget him something that reminds him of you. Maybe an engraved picture frame of the two of you. You can also get him tickets to a sporting event or a concert something you can do together that way he will have something to look forward to...........try ...But keep in Mind My advice....Tc
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2006-10-04 23:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Divs, why u want this person knowing that he has someone else in his mind and heart. If by anychance u get him than also u will never want ur hubby to ever think about anyone else. The pain which u can get later after marriage will b un tollerable, better try and forget him.Leave him on his own. There is a saying if u love someone set him free if he comes back to u he is urs and if he doesnt he never was. My advice to u just safe guard urself, dont get physical at any weak moment, otherwise u will live ur whole life with only guilt and he will enjoy his life with his wife. Think and act, listen to ur mind not heart. Best of luck.
2006-10-10 18:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 07:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is respect that he has a shistory with this ex of his and he wants to be with her, than tht's great if you really love him then you will care about him being happy. It's not just us. Sometimes things work out for a reason. If you guys are compatible then be a good friend with him, after you have had some time for you. all you can do is tell him that you love him and want him to be happy if she will make him happy then you will step aside and not pressure him. You can not make somebody love you.He is at least being honest with you because he cares about you, now you need to try to turn sexual feelings and attraction off and be a friend. If you listen to country music, listen to Garth Brooks Unanswered Prayers. It's really a great song, i think it may comfort you after this. Good Luck, it's not easy, but it is right.
2006-10-04 23:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey listen,
First of all, if you love him let him go. Hez a confused person. He doesnt know whom to choose. I have been in the same situation as you are in. I loved a person more than my life, but she left me. It's painful. I begged her sooooo much but to no avail. The pain would never go away, but leave them alone... just concentrate on your life now. Enough of sympathy towards this person.
You would meet the person who is perfect or who loves you more than you love this person. Dont let this phase of life trouble you so much that you miss the most beautiful things in life..
If you still want him back.. then god help you. That would be the biggest mistake in your life..
All the best
Dr.Love
2006-10-11 10:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by vjohn_m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go free. You would only be his spare tire if he returns to you and if that gal comes back from India, he will dump you again and you will get hurt again. You can still find someone who will love you with all his heart. Next time, if you love someone again make sure he loves you 101% before you fall in love to that person. We females can easily develop love for someone especially if they treat us with respect and treats us like a princess.
2006-10-04 23:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by MEDC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a lover u may have ur own feelings. But He also have his own. If he really wants x Gf. Then do't think he may come. So forget about him and take care for this type of insidents may happen
2006-10-04 23:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by sudhi's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boy friend, then he would become jealous and try to attract you. Anyway no point wasting your time who does not steady mind and vary between choices. It is wastage of life to yearn for someone with wavering personality.
Many from this forum can be your boyfriend whom you will like and definitely someone would like you better than anyone.
2006-10-04 23:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by chapatchapat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be possessive if u want him in ur life. please DARE to tolerate this nonsence person who is your love. & yeah u have not told that mistake in your question for which he is away from u.
u have time till 15th nov. make him feel being a REAL frind that u r the right person for him. Tgt : do 3 things a week for 3 weeks which r UNPREDICTABLLY & surprisingly positive about u for him. try to be natural. things in first two week will fail. HAVE PATIENCE. GOD BLESS U.
2006-10-05 06:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋