Our first daughter is due in November, and it would be nice to be (at least a bit) prepared. Some stuff we have already bought, I'm just wondering what we should actually include in the bag...
2006-10-04 22:48:07 · 46 answers · asked by Matt 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Hospital bag list.
FOR MUMMY.
Nigtie or old t.shirt for birth.
PJ'S x 3. Clean pair for each day.(Some people prefer tracksuits just make sure they are loose fitting, drawstring type things are good, you will most likely be the size after birth you were at 20 weeks pg)
Socks x 4.
Undies x 8.(I personally liked the BIG granny undies to help keep the maternity pads in place. Also I bought cheap ones and just threw them out if they got really yucky)
Maternity Pads x 4 packs or Incontinence underwear.(That's just for hospital, stock up on more for home. In the beginning you will need to change your pad every four hours sometimes more)
Nursing Bra's x 3.
Breast Pads x 1.(Again that's just for hospital. You won't leak too much untill your milk comes in so one pack should be fine for your bag)
Dressing Gown.
Pen.(For filling out hospital menus, puzzles and your babys chart)
Magazines or reading material.
Address book with numbers of all people ready to be contacted.
Camera (Film and digital)
Video Camera.
Spare Film for Film camera.
Chargers for Digital camera and Video or spare batteries.
Snacks. Chocolate, muesli bars, whatever.(Very good for visiting children, and YOU.)
Wallet with money for pay phone, TV, Kiosk.
Your own Pillow.
Anti natal card, blood group card, hospital card and appropriate paperwork.
Heat pack.
Soft toilet paper x 2 and flushable toilet wipes.(This will make toilet time alot nicer after the trauma of birth)
Plastic bags for dirty clothes.
Tissues.
Box of Chocolates and thankyou Pressies for Midwifes.
TOILETRIES FOR MUMMY.
Lip Balm.
Toothbrush.
Toothpaste.
Shampoo.
Conditioner.
Hairbrush/hairbands.
Deoderant.
Liquid Soap.(Easier than a cake of soap espeacially in share bathrooms)
Moisteriser.
Panadol and Ponstan. - check with your health care provider before taking any medication into hospital - taking medication not prescribed by your doctor can be dangerous as it may interfere with any medication he/she prescribes.
Lanisoh.(Nipple Cream}
FOR BABY.
Jumpsuits x4(I found jumpsuits to be easy but many people prefer baby nighties)
Singlets x4
Socks x4
Bodysuits x4
Bunny Rugs x4
Mittens x2(Newborns have sharp nails and scratch themselves on the face)
Hats x2
Going Home outfit or something nice for hospital photo's and or going home.
2 disposables or your own cloth nappies for going home.
Cotton Wool.
Snibs. (For those who don't know they are plastic sheets that tie around a cloth nappy, you can buy them in chemists)
Bibs.
TOILETRIES FOR BABY.
Baby Bath stuff.
Baby Shampoo.
Baby brush and comb.
Different hospitals will supply different things so it's worth asking your hospital what they supply in the way of nappies, baby clothing and if the need arises bottles and formula.
My hospital supplied cloth nappies but I needed to supply snibs and wipes.
My hospital supplied sterilising equipment for Bottles but I needed to supply my bottles and formula and teats.
I went public.
I preferred to take in my own baby clothes and layer the clothing (eg, Singlet, Bodysuit, Jumpsuit, Bunnyrug) and take off or put more on as the need arose.
The above list is based on a 3 day stay. If your`stay will be longer more will need to be added.
2006-10-04 22:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-27 05:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you take a childbirth class with her? They ususally have a list of suggested items. When my children were born, there were several items that came in handy. CHAPSTICK is a must have.. your lips get very dry and the hospital staff will not allow her to drink anything during labor. Also, lemon/lime suckers are good - you can't eat anything during labor either. Take her some fluffy socks and cushy slip on house slippers for afterwards (hospital floors are cold linoleum), maybe her own pillow from home. Toothbrush, some makeup (she'll probably be in some of the newborn pictures and want to look nice too). List of phone numbers to call everybody. Digital camera... Maybe a sweater (buttons up the front please) and something to put on besides the hospital gown (be aware that if she will breastfeed, she needs to be able to undo the front without taking it completely off). She will NOT fit into her prepregnancy PJ's yet. Bring the maternity ones, they'll be the most comfortable. What's her fav sweet? Bring a little bit of whatever it is.. something chocolate. A bottle of champagne...
2006-10-05 04:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by victronia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Along with the usual camera, money for phone, dressing gown etc, I'd suggest:
Your own pillow so your girlfriend's head doesn't stick to the hospital one that will have a plastic cover on it.
Soft toilet paper as hosp stuff is not the best for after the event.
One of those soothing cool pads for sticking in pants afterwards.Even if no stitches needed, it can still feel a bit bruised!
Nipple shields.
Loose slippers. My feet swelled up something terrible!
Essential lavander oil for a bath - soothing, healing and relaxing.
An old night shirt for giving birth in and something comfy to wear afterwards.
Disposable pants. Can be bought from the chemist. Not glamourous, but just the job!
Long sanitary towels.
There's lots more but I'd say these were essential along with the normal stuff! The hosp should send out a list of things you should take with you.
Oh! And don't forget a few things for baby!
Socks are good as their wee feet need to be warm when they get blood taken for essential tests.
Baby grows.
Muslin cloths.
Nappies.
Warm outfit for going home in.
Good luck! Fantastic moment for you both.x
2006-10-05 08:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by wee stoater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's going to want a complete change of clothes - something that she feels comfortable in. If she's going to stay overnight, you're going to need pj's, a robe and slippers, plus all of her essential wash kit. The midwives will offer her a bath or a shower once the baby has arrived and has been checked to see if all is OK. You might want to also think about a couple of pairs of underwear and some sanitary towels - she's going to need them. Then of course you need baby's bag - which I'm sure you've already got under control. Don't forget a bag for you - you're going to need a change of clothes too, plus a wash kit, you could be there for a while! Also, don't be afraid to take snacks and drinks for you - the hospital will only probably offer you tea/coffee and toast - they don't mind you taking your own food. Don't forget the camera and mobile and most off all enjoy the occasion - it's hard seeing your partner suffer, but it's all worth it at the end! Also, if she's anything like my wife, she won't remember too much about it. Give her lots of TLC after and enjoy being a father!!!
2006-10-04 23:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Gamedoog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find her the nicest smelling body wash ever made, after the birth she will want a lovely bath & that body wash will make her feel so much better, trust me! You'll need food for yourself & drinks because you could be there for a while, pyjamas & a nightie, pyjamas aren't always best as after having a baby there will still be blood loss which will soak pj's whereas whilst sitting in bed she can hoist a nightie up so as not to dirty it (Yes that happened to me!). Towels aren't essential as the hospital will provide them, but if she really wants her own be prepared to possibly throw them away once you're home! Toothbrush of course & toothpaste, deodorant, hairbands, hairbrush, lots of spare knickers, lots of maternity pads (or very thick sanitary towels), bras, a change of clothes for her to wear home, preferably not jeans, something loose round the belly.
And of course you're going to need nappies, wipes, nappy cream, vests, sleepsuits, hat, coat, mitts etc for the lovely little girl's trip home!
Good luck!
2006-10-05 01:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by C Greene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll need a bar of chocolate!! I don't eat if often but for some reason when I had my daughter I sent my hubby out for a bar of cadburys. I think it's psycological to replace some of the energy you use with sugar. Oh, and something really small for her to find at the bottom of the bag that says 'mummy' on it. My hubby bought tiny little bib that said I Love My Mummy. I've still got it because it was first 'mummy' thing I had.
2006-10-04 23:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by jeeps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clean pajamas-about two pairs, childbirth can be seriously messy- her own shampoo, conditioner, shower gel etc, one or two of her favourite snacks, camera (you will definately want photos of the first hours of your daughter's life) a few babygroes, a smallish cuddly toy for the baby- something that she'll have had since the day she was born. Also, it is traditional for the father to give the mother a gift in return for the safe delivery of his child- maybe a nice bracelet or a necklace?
2006-10-04 22:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mommy will need a robe, slippers, panties, bras, thick socks (in case it gets cold) lotion, toothpaste/toothbrush, hairbrush and something to tie her hair back during labor, you'll want to bring a digital camera if she okays it (I was highly upset when my mother snapped pictures of the delivery but i really appreciate it now).. chap-stick! trust me, she'll want it; snacks, a good book or magazine or two..
You'll need food, change of clothes, good pillows, and a list of everyone you want to call to notify of baby's arrival..
Baby will need an outfit to wear home and a car seat of course.. as far as milk, diapers and receiving blankets, the hospital i went to covered all of that so check with your hospital first.
And as far as an engagement ring?? Well, if you're not ready, a promise ring will do just fine? Hope this helps..
2006-10-05 01:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by in need of help! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to contact the Hospital where she plans to give birth. They will be able to tell you what they supply eg: some will supply nappies, singlets etc for the baby, others will not. Once you've ascertained what you DON'T need, then you can work out what you will need. All I needed was: Toiletries, nightie, dressing gown,(although some prefer normal clothing), maternity bra, pads, going home clothes, and for the baby, an outfit to wear home. Congratulations and good luck!!
2006-10-04 23:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by bougainvillaea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Singlets, nappies, a bottle or 2 incase breastfeeding is not possible, baby wipes ( I found the safeway homebrand refills pk 80 the best they are thick and dont dry out as fast as your more expensive brands), an outfit to bring your little girl home in a blanket or two.
2006-10-04 23:34:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋