My bf say i pesters&never trust him for baseless reasons and is fed up,despite dat after struggling he finally acceptd to text me as fren!wat does dat mean?
Its a longterm relationship where we both were deeply in love but only my weird attitude pushed him away.If he agreed to be my fren and text me 2 or 3 times a week does it mean dat he's giving me a chance to change?does it mean he still loves me?or mean he's seeking out?Is it wen he dont text for a day or two he's testing if im again pester him?ITS RATHER CONFUSING FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND.(reply by yes or no and explain y) plz i need as many answers as possible to know where do i stand.cud it be i lost him for good or cud b frenship bring him back?????
2006-10-04 22:33:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it is rather confusing as u seem to be confused too, lets take it this way if you suspect somebody or nag him/her without reason on petty issues it is bound to create unpleasantness. This guy loves U and so say u that u love him too so why the suspicions and nagging.
Now that things have gone so far as to create a break up
Ask yourself these key questions:
1. What's really bugging you?
2. Is this a recurring theme?
3. Is he really in the wrong?
4. Is arguing actually going to get you anywhere?
5. Are you ready to deal with the consequences if this is the Big One?
Remember true compatibility isn't magic — it's a meaningful connection between you and your partner. Don't declare war every time your man messes up -- if you're into him long-term, Constantly riding your mate will put your entire relationship at risk
All I can now say is you can give one more try, otherwise you can go along with life and find another friend and hopefully don't make the same mistakes again. Good Luck
2006-10-04 23:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Frist, he is making excuses for himself to find a way out. I have seen the more I accused my ex of cheating, the more he cheated. If you leave him alone, then if it's meant to be he will come back. But you need to let the man breath!!! If you think he's cheating or cheated then just go on about your life and leave him to himself. If you think he was honest and never cheated, then give him some slack and quit being such a pain in the touche. if he loves you and is honest with you, then give him some trust. Have more faith, not everyone is out screwing around. If you can't trust him because of past experiences, then leave it alone. Without trust and honesty there is only sex in a relationship and that means you are just screwing it's not a relationship. Good Luck.
2006-10-04 22:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't give a yes or no as the situation could go either way.
First thought is, move on with your life, he's dumped you in a nice way by saying 'let's be friends', rather than just out right saying it's over. And more than likely, he's out trying to find some one to take your place.
On the other hand, if you're willing to hang around for awhile, maybe several months, as his friend, there's a chance he'll reconsider and take up the relationship again.
I wouldn't advise it, if it didn't work the first time, it isn't going to work the second time. Maybe a few years down the road if you two should meet again it could work, but I'd write it off as a loss for now and move on.
2006-10-04 22:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
does it mean you should really care after he left you? tell him to leave you alone an let you heal. one does not do this to the other , if they truley care. it will hurt , but you don't need this. and just learn from your mistakes in life. jealousy will tear your whole life up! and in the long run it wasn't even worth the pain one put the other through. especially if it is your bed he is in at night?
2006-10-04 22:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He no longer wants to be your boyfriend that is why he just wants to be a "friend" and only text you.
Just leave him alone and find someone else who will like your attention.
2006-10-04 23:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How about you learn how to SPELL first? then concentarte in your love life
2006-10-04 22:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by spanishflyin_tx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't complicate your life just move on and
God Bless You.
2006-10-04 22:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Forget abt him, he get bored of u.
2006-10-04 22:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Please, for God sake, learn how to spell. Then you will be able to think.
2006-10-04 22:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by Tina Zecca 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋