I am a virgin...but I have done other stuff. I am more drawn to the penis than I am the vag. However I have strong urges to kiss and am attracted to women. They are beautiful and sexy! The most I've done with a woman is make out. I don't think I would ever want to go down on a woman unless I was really in love. (which I once felt like I was in love but she had a serious boyfriend and I don't think she quite felt the same way so I forced myself to forget about it). I think I would enjoy going down on a guy,(one thing I haven't done yet) as long as we were in a serious relationship. Also, straight sex sounds really good to me and I'd love to have it some day. So am I straight or bi or lesbian in the making??? What should I do? Persue a lesbian relationship at the risk of upseting family and friends? Or disregard those urges as just a faze?
2006-10-04 22:00:45 · 15 answers · asked by bluesmongre 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Labels are for food; don't worry about it. Just does what feels right and don't worry about what your family thinks. If they love you, they'll accept you.
2006-10-04 22:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by adphllps 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All legitimate issues and questions, one does wonder your age??? You have to figure out what urges you wish to pursue right now. You don't make a choice...it's already made for you...pre-destined...you just live and learn. There is nothing wrong with experimenting or satisfying your curiosities...just be honest with everyone involved and if you have a loving family they should support you no matter what your orientation and if they are closed-minded and too shallow to do so...you can simply let them know that you are living your life and going thru the same issues they went thru...accept it or not...you are going to be what you are destined to be...Fare Thee Well
2006-10-05 01:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I am not sure how old you are and that is the first issue because if you are young that it is normal to be curious but either way you should go out a experience life and see what makes you happy. It takes many years and many trials and errors to really get to a place where you know the real you and know what makes you happy.
2006-10-06 07:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Indiana Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question does not get easier as you get older.. I'm 23 now, married with kids, and i still wonder about myself.. I keep telling myself that it will get clearer in time.
Just do whats fun, and what you enjoy.. dont care what other people say or think.. they are not true friends if they cant except you during this time.
2006-10-05 04:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Val Drew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably bi. Resist those urges until you are an adult (defined as being financially self-reliant and out on your own). Then you will be free to experiment more.
2006-10-04 22:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want intimate relations with women and men, the "correct" label would be bi. Just go with whoever you find yourself attracted to, regardless of what's between their legs.
2006-10-05 02:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I don't think you should subject yourself to a label. Why let other people tell you what you are?? Besides, it seems like you're still fairly young. Experiment in a safe and healthy mannner. Don't worry yourself to death. Have fun with it!
2006-10-04 22:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your bisexual curious. Maybe you should meet some real life lesbians and hang out then let the motion of the ocean take its course.
2006-10-05 12:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound Bi curious to me. Explore your sexuality in a safe and healthy manner.
2006-10-04 22:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u are still young and if u havent completely figured out ur sexuality yet then thats ok. jjust go with what feels right. forget about what other people say
2006-10-04 22:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by filippa_s2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋