I fell in love with him completely. He met my children and I met his . We had some brilliant times together and I just don't know what went wrong. He had an ex-girlfriend that kept calling him and I think that he must have gone back to her. I am totally heartbroken and can't seem to function. We had so many plans together and it feels like my world has just collapsed. How am I meant to get over this?
2006-10-04 21:52:58 · 13 answers · asked by Rachel J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
TO HELL WITH HIM MAMMA LET THAT MESS GO IF HE DID YOU LIKE THAT AFTER 2yrs HE MEANT YOU NO GOOD SO TAKE THIS AS A LESSIN AND A BLESSIN BABY . DON'T EVEN TRIP JUST MAKE SURE WHEN OR IF YOU SEE HIM AGAIN YOU BE LOOKIN SO DAM GOOD THAT YOU MAKE HIS DAM HEAD SPIN AND WALK WITH YO HEAD HELD HIGH EVEN THOUGH YOU MAY BE HURT . DON'T YOU DARE LET HIM KNOW THAT HE HURT YOU AND IF HE CALL YOU NOT WANTING TO GET BACK TOGETHER TELL HIM THANK YOU FOR RELEASING YOU FROM YOUR HEAD ACHE AND YOU HOPE HE HAVE A GOOD LIFE AND LET THAT BE THAT , DON'T CALL HIM ASKIN FOR A EXPLINATION ALL YOU GONE DO IS BLOW UP HIS HEAD AND MAKE HIM FEEL HE IN CONTROL YOU ARE IN CONTROL AND KEEP THAT IN YOUR HEAD AT ALL TIMES . AS LONG YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU ALL TO THE GOOD MAMMA. TO HELL WITH HIM HE SUCKS
2006-10-04 22:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by bonifiedelegance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive had my heart broken so badly before also. I know how you feel but you must realize that if it was meant to be, he would still be around! I truly believe that all things happen for a reason. How would you have liked to have had a committed relationship like living together and then have him cheating on you with his ex? Better now then what would of or could have been. Trust me, its for the better! It is far better to know before the children got too attached, that would have been a horror! You must be very careful how you get the children involved because that could cause lasting emotional effects on the children. Anyway, time is the only way for things to get better my friend. It always gets better as time goes by. It hurts less and less every day, I promise because Ive been through it. The only difference is i fell in love with a mentally abusive man and had a horrible time leaving him because I loved him so much. Time healed the feelings and I got on with my life and eventually found the love of my life and you will also. It just takes time. Day by day minute by minute, you can do it! I promise.
2006-10-05 05:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he owes you an explanation that's for sure, once you understand what went wrong you can then begin to get over it. its unfortunate the kids gt involved, if he had no intention of continuing this then to mislead you is one thing but t mislead both sets of kids is entirely another and not right. Try to get in touch with him and ask him for an explanation, he owes you that at least. it may be he was been pulled in two different ways, an ex calling him all the time is not constructive if you are trying to start a new one, but if he has gone back to her then he was not over her and your relationship would not have lasted anyway as re bound ones never do. i am sorry you have had a hard time and I know its hard to get over these things but you really must try to move on for your kids sake, go out with them and have fun, you never know Mr Right may be n your local park or skating rink etc. That's the trouble with memories , they don't leave when lovers do,
2006-10-05 05:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just had the same thing happen to me btu mine was 6 months long and we were talking abotu getting married and stuff then all ofa sudden he was done had no reason why the only thing i was told is lets try again later because i still love you so i was upset for a few days btu then he kept calling me and stuff i aske so are we back together or not at first we were then he wanted to split up again so i told him that i love him alot and and i hope he makes up his mind soon because until he does i olny wanto be friends it was tough but i think he needed time and i know he wasn't going to take tiem so i had to give him time i mean we keep in touch hopefully he will change him mind but let him come back to you
2006-10-05 10:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by 22inWV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sad for you, but your world will get better. He changed his mind and it wasnt meant to be. Just give yourself some time, be your own best friend anf pamper yourself. No man (or woman) is worth all this pain, happiness comes from the inside, not from other people.
2006-10-05 05:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
two months, not two years....walk on and be grateful that your children did not spend years with him. I know I sound harsh, but unless you're willing to confront him, if he'll even answer your calls, and you actually believe his answer. Remember... when confronting someone, you have to come off as if you are non-threatening, like you might understand their situation, like you might be able to deal with their situation, live with their situation. I hope you see the "their" in all this, what about you????
2006-10-05 04:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by tazzmth 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he might have gone to his ex-girl friend. But donot give up try to call or find him and talk to him. There is still a chance.
But if that is not working then be strong to face it.
2006-10-05 06:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy comes easy go. No help at all. Take it , is nothing to do.
Sad and painful reality, remember - tomorrow is another day.
2006-10-05 04:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just know him for 2 months.I'm sure it still a crush.Time will heal.Keep yourself busy with the kids.He don't deserve you my dear.If he's serious,he will stoped answering cal from his ex and focus on you.All the best!
2006-10-05 04:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only 2 months..
if ppl who've been w/someone after so many yrs r able 2 move on, so can u!
2006-10-05 05:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋