Hi out there write i have this friend who seriously is not me she is nearly 18 and has never had a proper boyfriend she is also a virgin and because of this she thinks no boy would look at her twice she is very self aware of her self as she is a size 12 she also thinks shes fat i told her shes not but shes just so parnoid to she thinks people talk about her and look and stare at her what do you think serious question
2006-10-04 21:40:17 · 3 answers · asked by Karen J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.
I know people that have saved their virginity until marriage.
Your friend shouldn't be in such a hurry to give it up.
It sounds like your friend has some self-esteem issues. Instead of telling her all the time she's pretty and not fat, why not do some activities with your friend (aerobics, biking, jogging, etc).
Even just a couple of times a week should get her feeling a little better about herself.
Also make her make a list of all the things she likes about herself.
Guys don't want to date women who have low self-esteem. I'm sure she has good qualities, she just needs to realize that and be happy with who she is.
2006-10-04 21:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First problem is I can't find your question. Size 12 is NOT fat. Good for you for being a virgin at 18. Relax - it will all fall together. You're WAY too young to be doing anything other than enjoy yourself (and hopefully go to school and/or work). You haven't grown out of adolescence yet. THEN see how much you weigh. And you'll be surprised at how many men prefer a woman with a little meat on their bones.
2006-10-05 04:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by 34th B.G. - USAAF 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take he to a counselor
2006-10-05 04:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋