I have been trying to reach my bf btw eight and 12 midnight last night. He called me earlier today to say that he wanted to talk about his class discussion. I sent him a text after he got out of class and he didn't respond. I called twice and left a message both times. This is so unlike him. Then I remembered that over the weekend, some girl kept doing the same thing I'm doing now. He didn't respond to her calls or texts. I asked him about it and he says they never had a relationship. She's some girl who likes him but he doesn't like her.
I felt silly for trying to reach him and annoyed because I know that he had to have gotten the text I sent him right after his class ended. So I called him one last time and left a message stating that he doesn't have to call or text me back. I told him to to take care and have a great semester. I was annoyed because I got the feeling that there might be someone else. Otherwise, why wouldn't he pick up his phone? Did I overreact?
2006-10-04 21:26:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you may have overreacted a little, and in an immature way.
I don't know much about your boyfriend, but if he's in college, and working, he probably has a lot on his plate. Just because he didn't return your text immediately or call you right back is no reason to assume he is with someone else.
Maybe he had to stay after class to talk to the teacher, or he had a family emergency, or maybe he just was tired and didn't feel like talking to anyone.
Next time talk to the person before you get all angry, and tell the person what you are worried about (that he is seeing someone else.) Give people a chance before you just write them off.
2006-10-04 21:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you left that last message kind of angry sounding, that might have been a bit overreacting, but I would wait until you see him next before you start judging too much.
Still, it's kinda suspicious I guess....but your message could almost be interpereted as breaking up with him. See what his explanation is, but don't push it. If it happens a few more times, then something's maybe up, I dunno.
King Nels was kinda harsh, but hit it right on the head.
2006-10-05 04:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you did not overreact. What you did was great. It has put the ball in his court. You have not been rude or anything like that. Leave it now and see if he contacts you. If not don't worry about it. Move on, he is a lost cause and find someone else that will treat you better.
2006-10-05 04:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by bammbamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy doesn't want to pick up the phone and text back to you as soon as possible, that means you means nothing to him! Let him go and find another better person who cares for you more! Why waste time calling someone who doesn't want to bother picking up the phone, save those mintues and call someone else!
2006-10-05 04:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by kathy T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe a little. Maybe because of this other girl he turned his 'phone off and now he's making you "suffer." Don't answer the first time he calls and NEVER apologize - save those for the big things. Let it go. If he wants this hussy - and wants to lie to you about her - you're too good for him.
2006-10-05 04:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by 34th B.G. - USAAF 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. All guys ignore girls who like them that they don't like back. For example, a girl who liked my buddy was talking to him (but he didn't like her back) and then when I walked by he just turned around and started talking to me as if she wasn't even there (she was still talking and didn't look too happy to be brushed off like that). But thats how we treat girls who we don't like back ... you said this is your boyfriend. That's totally different! And he called you in the first place. He probably just got busy and didn't get to calling you back right then. Doesn't mean he doesn't like you.
2006-10-05 04:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by Benjamin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl its normal to have overreacted about your bf... it happens to all of us.... but still thats no reason to go breaking up with the guy... give him a change to explain his side of the story.... and then you tell him how you feel.... hey was probably busy with something and didnt' text you or answered your calls... so talk to him first k.. and you'll see it will all work out....:-) goodluck
2006-10-05 04:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when I was dating my hubby and he would ignor me I would get mad. Maybe he was busy and nothing bad was going on. Would he talk to you at all? Maybe you should call him, possibly get together, and talk things out. I hope everything works out for you.
2006-10-05 04:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Chill out honey boys don't like to talk all the time. You might have blown it now.
2006-10-05 04:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by King_Nelson_Brilliant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did over react. Call him back and tell him what you felt and why you behaved that way.
2006-10-05 04:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋