We are going thru or have been thru all of the above and sex has dwindled to zero activity.
2006-10-04 20:46:59 · 12 answers · asked by cscjm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well it sounds like things arn't going very well!!! Take things slow right now! It sounds like there has been a major thing in your lives(abortion) that can cause a lot of pain! Talk to him and let him know that you understand what he is going through, and try to relieve some of the pressure if you can!!! Maybe go to counseling if things are getting to hard to handle!!!
2006-10-04 21:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Peachy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All mental stress has a great effect on the sexual desire. May be you have been together for a long time to the point that you are fed up .I suggest that both of you try to to a refresher by trying somebody else.Also have new looks and try different places and different positions.If all is not successful,you will definitely get a big help from Viagra or cialis
2006-10-05 04:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Salim A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress is a killer to good sex! Financial problem is a form of stress, without monies, how to plan for marriage? The fear of another unwanted pregnancy create anxiety in having a good sex.
why not discuss with one another about your financial situation and look for ways to improve your income by taking up additional jobs at night? talk to to girl's parents about the delay in the marriage plan as well. Use proper contraception in making love, avoid taking risk.
Hope you find peace with these answers.
2006-10-05 20:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only yes but hell yes, you both are in need of serious counseling, the respect for each other is gone and love may not be enough to fix this fracture.
2006-10-05 03:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my God yes, any one of those things could diminish a sex life. Stack them all on top of each other and your sex life could be doomed. It sounds to me like you both need a lot of holding and caring to get your trust back up to where it was...
2006-10-05 03:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sidoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when people equate sad or upsetting things with something, they lose their interest in that something. In your case, it was sex, in other peoples case, it could be driving, flying, tree climbing, you name it.
Perhaps you just need to figure out what you're feeling just before and try and work through those issues.
2006-10-05 03:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by iswd1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most defenately!! geezz i suggest you both get therapy, abortion in itself will put thoughts in his head...money not to mention.....and marriage wow!!! dont you think this should wait if finances arent going well? good luck any way girl
2006-10-05 03:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by mercia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3X the stresses, well, it does sound like the killer for sex.
Stress is a silent killer and not traceable....
2006-10-05 03:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rootbeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress can reduce all appetites.
2006-10-05 03:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by victorschool1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-05 03:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋