The pain is on entry and I can feel it when it hurts her - like a pulling or snapping sensation. We have been having regular sex for over 9 months now and do't know how to help the problem. The problem does not go away even when she is really turned on. and it makes no dfference how slow I go when we start. Any advice ??
2006-10-04 20:46:59 · 10 answers · asked by Rob D 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Assuming your girlfriend is not a minor, it could be that the pelvic opening, which is an irregularly shaped opening in the bone at the bottom of the pelvis, is too small for your size. The pelvic opening varies greatly between women. The smaller the opening, the more painful sexual intercourse can be. Normally during pregnancy the opening enlarges as a woman's body prepares for childbirth, and for some women the opening never goes back to the smaller size it was before childbirth. If the opening doesn't separate far enough during pregnancy and labor, a woman could need a caesarian section.
She should go to her gynocologist to see if anything can be done to alleviate the problem. In the meantime, make sure you use plenty of lubricant and take your time and go very slow with entry so her body has a chance to stretch.
2006-10-04 21:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by LadyLgl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you visit a doctor?
Provided everything is done in the proper way, there might be an anatomic problem which can be resolved by a simple operation under local anaesthesia.
2006-10-04 20:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by ngiapapa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem and it was serious it was stage two cancer I'm OK now but she needs to be checked I'm 34 this happened 3yrs ago and in the treatment center i saw girls ranging from 18 to 40 young with cancer be safe and get her checked it may not be bad however if i was feeling that kind of discomfort i would want to know why.good luck
2006-10-04 21:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gf and i had been doing that for almost 3 yrs and no problem seem to arise. my best advice for you is that you should accompany your gf to the nearest ob-gyne to seek professional help, it's the only way to know what's the real deal.good luck!
2006-10-04 20:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a LaDy Doctor
2006-10-04 20:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by MaSTeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She mite not be wet enought for u
work harder man!!
2006-10-04 20:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes......ask her who else she is screwing and find a new girl........she is full of crap......move on..............she is obviously not lubricating properly..........in other words...yuo dont turn her on enough dude. sorry...........
2006-10-04 20:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by jimmy the saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor,sounds really painful............please see a doctor....
2006-10-04 20:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop railin her so hard.
2006-10-04 20:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by j rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try KY
2006-10-04 20:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋