i have a male gay best friend and i love him but only as a friend! but at night i have these dreams where we r together sometimes we r just ciddling but sometimes we r having sex! is this wrong?
2006-10-04 20:28:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hell no . i have a lez girl friend i told her sometims i think of her in that way she almost die from laughing . i should have waiting for her to finish her drink i guess
2006-10-04 20:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you dream about the last few things that were on your mind before falling asleep. It's possible you were thinking about your buddy before you dozed off, and maybe you were also thinking about sex at another point during the night. It's possible ;)
2006-10-05 03:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are just having dreams then how can they be wrong! You don't really have control of what goes on in there after you fall asleep! If you were thinking about this guy, and having fantasies about him while awake then that would be wrong!
2006-10-05 03:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by Peachy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly normal to have dreams of lust or sex regarding someone we like. The fact that he is gay makes it even more curious for you.. Don't worry.. it will pass.. but don't smile too big someone might think you got lucky..
2006-10-05 03:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant say you are wrong you have mixed feelings towards him, you need to try and understand that he is gay and he wont be interested in having a relationship more that a friendship one with you. You can try talking to him about your feelings, if only you know that it wont change your relationship.
2006-10-05 03:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Maphondo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called fantisizing. Everyone does it, but at a certain age you have to realize that they will only remain fantasies. If anything tell him, gay men are very intelligent, and he will probably have the best advice of all of us.
2006-10-05 03:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Isaac C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG DUDE!!!!!!
JK, there's nothing wrong. I'm a gay male, a strong friendship between a gay dude and a straight gurl (i'm a ssuming you are one). It's really awesome. My best friend is a female, and love her to death, wouldn't trade her for no one!... keep it real!
2006-10-05 03:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i don't find anything wrong with it. It is just a dream and as you have said he is only your friend and you have no feeling other than platonic.
2006-10-05 04:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. Dreams are not reality. Your conscious is just telling you that you want someone like your best friend as a lover.
2006-10-05 03:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by lanalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual dreams with a member of the opposite sex... I'm thinking your dreams are "healthy", his lifestyle is very unhealthy.
2006-10-05 03:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋