i dont want him to think about other women.i do all for him,but everyday having sex is really hectic for me.if i cant join with him,he get upset.so,now we do 5times a week.but i feel upset,that if i cant do according to his demand,he might be get involve with someone else.please,help me with real advice.
2006-10-04 20:18:13 · 17 answers · asked by Farjo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Problem..? You call this a problem? Girl.. I think you'd be complaining if he didn't want to have sex either. lol.. it's funny.
2006-10-04 20:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see where 5 times a week is a problem, but then I don't see where 5 times a day would be a problem. Sex is healthy and great exercize. However, if you truly have a problem with this and you can't find a way to give it up more often then you need to tell him how you feel. Maybe you can come to an agreement of some kind.
2006-10-05 03:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey relax..may be he is young, or he has a high libido, or its a v new marriage, or most importantly may be he finds you very sexy and has a very high desire for you. The very fact that he has consented to having it 5 times/week also means that he loves you. So, dont worry and try to enjoy those 5 times to the fullest...In the course of time, may be you will WANT it 7 times/week or he would stabilize at 3-4 times a week.
Good Luck and Have Fun
2006-10-05 03:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by life_is_rhythm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Was he this way before you got married? He must either have an insatiable libido or he has forgotten how to make love to you. I mean even God rested on the 7th day! You say you love him, but I don't get from him by his behavior similar feelings for you. Sex is only one aspect of a marriage. Is this his main or only focus?
2006-10-05 03:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isnt that bondage
Are you sure about him being in love with you or just after sex
I think if he is a loving and caring person he should understand your needs and desire at specific times esp concering making love
Again i still believe that you have become desperate that he will get invovled with someone else if you dont tow the line....... are you even cormfortable having sex with him when you are under duress
These are questions/answers to a decision that you need to make
Be strong my dear
2006-10-05 03:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by rdida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh..reminds me of the good ol days. It doesnt last forever. Need more info tho. Do you just do quickies? Do you indulge each others fantasies? If you exaust each other a couple times a week, that is more fulfilling. Anyway, have fun and good luck..maybe Dr Phil!
2006-10-05 03:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by sabor69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you think its a chore, which would imply that it "isn't worth messing up your hair" if ya know what I mean. Sounds like he could use some pointers that would make it more worth your while. Why not buy some how-to books (like the Kama-Sutra) and have him try some new things to spice it up?
2006-10-05 03:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Newageseer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r lucky! bcz ur husb love u too much
and bcz ur in his eye the most beautifull girl
also bcz ur realy attractive, hot, sexy, doing every thing for him.
by-the-way, go with him, and don't think its a big problem..
his demand as reflection of the good things u did
try to talk by romantic way, and tell him its ur problem and how he can help u? may be he ll understand..
goodluck
2006-10-05 03:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by sas s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak ur mind out to him and let him know you love him alot but its hectic as well..... you probably may have to do it to satisify him thats why you are there. Let him know you'll try your best or else he'll be forced to cheat on you. best of luck.
2006-10-05 03:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by kiss me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(......i love my family very much.with my husband and child,i want to spend my whole life.. i love cooking and traveling …..i .......want to enjoy and make others to feel good about me.well,thats me!...)
well thats you describing "you".. !!!!
The way I see it...
Your husband has a great love for you and its getting greater day after day..it seems that you give him no choice but to do so!!
2006-10-05 03:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by loody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋