17 year old daughter got pregnant by a lil dumbass -should i freik or be calm -and he is distancing hisself from her now---her sisters are in college and now this lil prob ---swore all my kids would go and graduate college---help i really wanna break him
2006-10-04 20:10:53 · 11 answers · asked by michael_stewart32 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Take a deep breathe...the best thing is to protect your daughter and assure her that you still love her even though she has made a huge mistake. She is probably really scared and doesn't know what to do, instead of breaking the young boys face concentrate on the one that really matters...YOUR DAUGHTER...she needs all the support right now. I would definitely think really hard before you take actions, I would actually go to the boys parents and let them deal with him. Good luck
2006-10-04 20:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Billie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
unfortnunly all 17 year old boys do that coz they are little terds they will do the deed but leave the poor girl to deal with it. Don't freak just give her the support she needs coz she will need alot of it. Support her in what ever choice she makes being either she wants to keep it or she doesn't its up to her. He will come back to her when he matures a little knowing that its his child if he's a person with a real heart he will not just bail on his own kid, he's probably freaking out and probably needs abit of awareness, maybe have a talk with ur daughter find out what she wants to do and give the father of the child to be's parents a call see if they can help.
2006-10-04 20:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be calm. Your daughter needs you calm, not crazy. Take it from somebody who was in her shoes once upon a time.
If the boy is distancing himself, good riddance to bad rubbish. Which would be worse? Have him leave now, or leave later, and have not just your daughter, but also your grandchild be heartbroken?
Go hug your girl. And she can still graduate college if you help her.
2006-10-04 20:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by j3nny3lf 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i develop into like that too for me fat develop into in basic terms the main important concern. i could have quite been lifeless then fat at 17 I took weight loss software pills and have been given so into no longer gaining any weight I have been given truly ill I weighed seventy six pounds yet now i'm 21 weigh a hundred and ten and that i'm extra effective than happy and that i relish myself for what i'm and not for what i appear like. I stay very lively besides.
2016-10-01 23:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do about it now. You have to support your daughter because as hard as it is for you it is just as hard if not more so for her! If the young boy involved does not acknowlede the kid or does not help support the kid then take him to court! There is nothing else you can do to him. You see his true colours now, rather send him on his way. You want better for your daughter, I know I would!!!!
2006-10-04 20:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by Slk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay calm,your daughter needs your suport now trust me later she will look back and thank you for standing behind her and suporting her.
2006-10-04 22:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, I am so sorry.
First thing, don`t panic! Talk to her, see what she wants to do. Offer support, don`t judge, she knows she`s in deep. Hurting him will not change the situation even though it would bring you satisfaction...
Good Luck!
2006-10-04 20:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Roxie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
be calm with her becaouse if you freak she may go do somthing dumb and kill the baby yes she should have waited but it happend and im shur you will love your grand baby
2006-10-04 20:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by c_wilke22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, your daughter was there, right, and participating? Don't put all the blame on the dude!!!
2006-10-05 04:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grab a shotgun and shoot the "dumbass". Or, threaten the "dumbass" to pay for the abortion.
2006-10-04 20:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by Kraz 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋