I just walked in on him *cough* WITH another guy, what do I tell him and not sound like a bigot.
2006-10-04 19:32:13 · 32 answers · asked by . 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do what you would do if it had been a girl. And knock next time...
2006-10-04 19:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by ravensremorse00 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
SO? listen dude, if it were a chik u wouldnt even ask. So get over urslf.
Now if u really dont feel comfortable, jst b honest. Say 'listen dude, ive got noting against u. jst im gonna feel uncomfortable wen uve got another guy'. Sum1 above said u should say tings should stay in bedrooms (wich i get a feeling u walked in2 wen dis happened, an YES KNOCK!!!!) an dis rule should apply equally. 1ce u break it, so can he. Den u cant moan. Ull b over it in a wile. TRUST ME! Str8 dudes have gay frends, an my buddies dont mind me anymore, took a wile though.
So sort tings out, come 2 an agreement an ull b fine.
2006-10-04 23:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Think about what you would want him to say to you if the situation was the other way around. How would you feel if you had been the one busted?
I got busted when my grandparents walked in while I was with another girl. My grandmother made a joke about it... She was like... "is this what we call BUSTED?!?"
Don't make a huge deal about it. Talk to him. If it was in the living room, tell him that you would appreciate it if he did that sort of thing in his space and that you will do the same. ..... Who REALLY wants to sit on a sticky couch any how?!?
2006-10-04 20:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by littletease3 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Your living situation wasn't made very clear. Are you in a college dorm, apartment, house, what? If your in a dorm, maybe the two of you can agree to hang a "do not disturb" sign on the door when one of you is "entertaining" someone. In a house or apartment, you can ask him to please try to "entertain" in his bedroom so that there will be no chance of you walking in on him in the future. And if either of you know ahead of time that you'll be bringing someone home, make arrangements for the other roommate to be gone from the house, dorm, apartment, for a while.
good luck.
2006-10-04 23:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Why do you have to say anything?
What would you expect him to say if he walked in on you in bed with a chick?
Nothing is usually best in these situations. Let him do the talking if he feels funny about it.
Either way, you should knock first.
Your bad, dude.
2006-10-05 06:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jake 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Was he is his own room?
Just tell him that your okay with everything, but just like if it were a straight guy, do what your gunna do behind closed doors? Unless he was just kissing him. Theres nothing wrong with that really.. come on.. If you wouldn't get freaked out over a guy and a girl.. If you would.. then tell him to go away for that too. haha
I think its cute.
2006-10-04 19:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by robotsx3mebetter@sbcglobal.net 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Where was he and his friend? If they were in his room, then it is no issue, as it is his room, and he can do whatever wants in there!
If they were in a public area of the house, then you could just ask him if he wanted to do things with his partner, could they do it in the privacy of his own room...
2006-10-08 13:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if your roommate was straight, you would tell him to do the hanky panky in his bedroom, so tell your gay roommate the same thing. If you don't feel comfortable with a gay roommate, then you need to get out of your apartment rental agreement with your landlord and move somewhere else.
2006-10-04 19:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
You should say whatever you would have said in the same situation if it would of been a girl he was with. Anything from, "Sorry Dude, didn't mean to walk in on you" to "I find your lax moral actions appalling and can't abide them in my house" is acceptable, as long as it is the same reaction a heterosexual in the same situation would get.
2006-10-04 19:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by traceystewart1964 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
It depends on how you feel about that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with him being a homosexual. However, he should have let you in on that little bit of info before you just walked in a got that little suprise.
2006-10-04 19:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by l_baby86 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If he was in his bedroom, say nothing. If he was in a common living area, talk to him about using the bedroom in cae you have someone with you next time
2006-10-05 03:05:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋