Now do not feed me the line of a marriage is sacred for look @ how many cheating spouses they are.How many do you know?I am not talking about finding another love just making love.One could say friends with benefits.
2006-10-04 19:24:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
guilt when both love to play
2006-10-04 19:29:54 · update #1
to raise a family to have a soul mate,to have a best friend @ hand,to one's couple fetishes and adventure's is another man's nightmare
2006-10-04 19:35:22 · update #2
7 yrs going on 8 with no regrets or remorse,call our life twisted one man's dream is another man's fantasy come true
2006-10-04 19:37:28 · update #3
I'm not married but was in an open relationship for ten years with a man who I loved dearly. It worked extremely well for us because we were both ok with it. A lot of times, people will agree to it but the reality of actually knowing your partner is with another can be too difficult for most people. We were basically best of friends that shared our lives. We began our relationship as most do but after a breakup, we decided that neither of us wanted to lose the other. We had all the aspects of most relationships yet we allowed each other any freedoms that we wanted.
I do not want that nor do i wish for it in my current relationship. I think it has a lot to do with the individuals involved and the connection of them two and their dynamics. What works for one relationship, doesn't in another.
2006-10-04 19:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Against open marriage. The whole idea of marriage is to take yourself off the market and commit to someone. The idea of marriage is an ancient and religious one. Those who cheat when married are cowards and selfish concerning the other partner. They want to have the cake and eat it too. If you want to have sex with other people stay single.
Also the term making love indicates emotion. Have sex is just the animal desire. Hard to make love with no strings attached.
What if one of the spouses changes their mind about an open marriage. Then what? Do you both stop? What is you want to continue? And did you think about the diseases you might bring home to your spouse by both of you sleeping around? Best not even to go in that direction.
2006-10-05 02:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by ellikat21114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Against. Who would want to f@ck up a relationship with a solid foundation for some temporary fun? It wouldn't be worth the headaches and heartaches not to mention guilt that would go along with it.
I know this couple that has an open relationship like that. It's messed up in so many ways. Somehow they make it work though. But whatever, more power to them I guess. I won't judge, to each their own.
Oh and LOL @ at the guy that said you sell your soul!
2006-10-05 02:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you must realize is the differences between making love and having sex. one makes love to their partner /the love of their life.
making love involves emotions
sex on the other hand is about physical pleasure
the next thing is you need to discus with your partner why you want an open relationship. and if it would work for the two of you. not all relationships can handle open relationships or the swinger lifestyle. it has broken many relationships.
my partner and I have an open/swinger style relationship.
sex with others is just that sex....we are trying to fulfill some fantasy
2006-10-05 02:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by ladysilverhorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My last wife was 14 years younger than me, fine as hell and bisexual and she loved inviting beautiful women to join us in our bedroom. It seemed perfect for a few months but I felt like a dirty pathetic piece of sh!t and divorced her after only 9 months. Marriage IS sacred whether you like it or not.
2006-10-05 02:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You kidding me man? When you get married, your selling your soul. That it, it's over, your done, THE END. you even think about having sex with some one else you're going to regret you ever lived.
2006-10-05 02:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lord of the Apocalypse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the people in the marriage. I have had friends that have had open marriages and it worked fine for them.
2006-10-05 02:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tried it years ago and it was too stressful and just didn't feel right. Have been monogamous for many years now and I am more comfortable with this kind of relationship.
2006-10-05 02:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im against it! I think if im with one person I should be with that person heart soul and Mind
2006-10-05 02:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by HunnyBunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be married if you want to share things that only couples should share?
2006-10-05 02:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋