I have a theory that I wrote about in my blog tonight, and want to see if others agree.
Despite the myth, I don't think most lesbians actually hate or even dislike men. They just dislike sex with men. No, for *real* man-hating, you have to turn to straight women, and bi women with recent male experience. Hell, just look at greeting cards and commercials designed to reach straight women!
What are your experiences with this?
http://crackerlilo.blogspot.com/2006/10/interesting-theories_04.html
2006-10-04 19:09:52 · 21 answers · asked by GreenEyedLilo 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ROFL I think you hit the nail on the head there Darlin'!!
What's worse is those "man-haters" are usually, Christan, white, straight and non-feminists!!!
REAL lesbians are NEVER threatened by men, they know they're better than men. If anything, they simply pity them!
And to that guy above me, I've never met a lesbian who was in anyway jealous or felt competitive towards men for the affections of other lesbians.
Point being, LESBIANS...not straight women...why would a lesbian be attracted to a straight woman?
2006-10-04 19:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Ha, yes, I agree. Hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is. I believe most lesbians are indifferent/disinterested in having a romantic or sexual relationship with men. The chemistry isn't there and it's just a big no thanks, not doing it for me. Some lesbians are thoroughly grossed out by the mere thought, but again that doesn't mean they hate men. Lol, most people love their parents dearly while finding the thought of sex with either thoroughly repulsing. As far as friendship goes, it's an entirely different story. I think most lesbians have male friends and some love them very dearly as friends.
In order to hate men, I think it takes a really bad experience with one or more to generalize that hate to all men, and that the experience most likely included some form of romantic or very deep love in order to turn it into generalized hate. Although a few lesbians may have had such an experience (extreme ridicule more than likely), I dont know it to be the norm. Straight and bi women, however, are apt to have such a relationship and to get so completely used and abused by men that it can turn to generalized anger at the whole male species :). I've only known straight women who've hated men, no lesbians, btw.
2006-10-04 19:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by Alex62 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I am a lesbian (no bi) I dislike sex with men, but I talk a lot with men. No problems with that. I often have class only with man and sport etc and they have a way of thinking which I also have (a bit less compared to them, but yeh, I act a bit more male and less female, and no, I don't look like a dyke)(well, just a bit)
Well, I don't hate men or really dislike them but 1 --> I am attracted by other women, 2 --> I prefer the way of thinking of women, above that from men. I can't express myself very clearly about this issue, but the main point is, if I would have a wife, I would have such a wonderful life, and if I would have a man, I would lost my personality.
So, I never would go for a man, cause of there mind, they (the men) can't change it, it is just a piece of mine which feels attracted by women. That isn't only sexually.
But I feel good in company of men, that isn't the problem, it is the point ever to be with a men. So, I don't hate men, but I, well, I am just a lesbian. can't change it.
2006-10-04 21:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by frenzie-ann 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to be straight and now I'm a lesbian. I don't hate men I still find the attractive and have a lot of guy friends but I just didn't like having sex with a male. It was too uncomfortable for me and I felt very wierd. With a woman it's different and I'm more relaxed.
2006-10-05 02:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not one lesbian here or other wise realises that their illness is a form of hypnotic suggestion and infantile narcissistic perversion. You are forgetting that in mental health - your "admission" or denial is irrelevant to the condition - it only speaks of your further mental illness. Lesbianism, regardless of your denial, is definitive of the worst form of hate - contempt or indifference - you are just too stupid to realise it or too guilty to. No one thinks of their personality or behaviour as being defined by hate of a group - yet all feminism and lesbianism definitively and demonstrably is. Since you cant admit it, whats the point in asking? You have to find ways you think fool people to hide your hate.
All lesbianism is both hate, immature, narcissistic and an inferiority complex; the inversion of feeling worthless in the face of superior men - what do all lesbians and feminists do?
They seek out the worst of men in history and society to compare themselves with for a massive power trip and ego boost and so they dont feel so evil, so guilty and ashamed. If they compared themselves with even average normal men, never mind great men; artists, composers, scientists - they most likely would kill themselves in despair.
You cant trust anything a woman says on this because their "reality" is a fiction defined by their magazines and popular culture.
Any woman ever saying "Im a lesbian" should be read as "I feel totally worthless and desperately need any false sense of power in society - as with all woman I have no sexuality, so I'll pretend I hate men more than all other women and I find women more attractive than other woman - (though they are no different)
so I can believe am rejecting all men, and therefore feel superior to all men - none of whom are good enough"
any bad psychologist, you dont need to be Freud, can come up with this simply obvious analysis - there is no other.
2014-12-01 08:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian=) so I think my reply should have some weight on the subject. I also have many lesbian friends (of course) who share the same views... Women do not become lesbians because we hate men... like you said .. we just dont like sex with them. Myself and many friends will agree that we still check out men and will even go as far as to say he's hot or sexy occasionally... but not in the "I want to do you" way... just in the appreciation of beauty kind of way. I actually don't know any lesbians who could say they hate men. Maybe dislike their ways, bodies, voices, hairiness and whatever else... but hate ..NO.
2006-10-04 19:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most lesbians that I know or have talked to do not hate men. Most women that hate men are straight ones who've had alot of negative experiences with men.
2006-10-04 19:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I do not hate men. Had I done so, I do not believe that I would have received the help and support from my family when I needed it most. I give my brother an affectionate kiss at Christmas but no other males attract anything.
Rose P.
2006-10-04 20:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by rose p 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a man is nice I like him.
If a man is a toss-bucket, I don't like him.
It's all about the individual. I would never make the generalisation that I hate an entire gender, or race, or ethnic group.
It's just that I am attracted to women more than I am attracted to men.
Nothing else to it.
It really is that simple.
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2016-10-01 23:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋