ok heres the deal...
Me and my bf have been going out since I was in 6th grade and He has moved away..I am really really sad and I really miss him.I havent talked to him in a while and I dont know how else to get ahold of him I have tried email letters phone text ims and everything and still nothing..DO you think that means he hates me now and doesnt love me anymore..I mean I know I may sound dumb about this but do you think thats what it is that he doesnt want to talkt o me anymore??Anyway I feel like a failure because of all this ..I feel like i failed him and me and out relationship but on the other hand I feel that I have given it my all to get ahold of him..well anyway thanks for reading this and if you can and have time will you please anwser this and tell me what you think is going on.. thanks and please no mean anwsers..
2006-10-04 19:08:54 · 9 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok for everyone that needs more info ..Ok here it is ,..I have been dating him since 6th grade and im in 9th grade..we talked once since he moved and He is not only my bf but my best friend hope that helps anwser more of your ?'s thanks..
2006-10-04 19:18:46 · update #1
It doesn't mean he hates you. He's just moved on. There are other guys out there that you will be happy with as well, and develope a good relationship with. I suggest you move on as well. You have not failed in any way what so ever. It's just hard to keep in touch long distance anyway, be it great neighbors, friends, even some family members. Keep your chin up and look on the positive side of things. Now you have the oportunity to discover the single you and incorporate your new personality with the old. Become a more updated you!!! I hope I helped!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-04 19:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to give you a good solid answer, but I don't have enough information. How long have you been dating? 6th grade to what grade? How long ago did he move? Have you guys talked since he moved? All of these questions need answered before I can answer you. Sorry.
Additional answer:
If you know how to get a hold of him, tell him how you feel. Chances are, he has found someone new and doesn't want to hurt you. The thing is, many long distance relationships don't last. You are young, and this is a learning experience for you. I know it is hard to let go. But more than likely, you will have to.
2006-10-05 02:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by There can only be one - (ANSWER) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your BF a chance to explain. Im sure you dont know the situation he is in. He might also be in a condition when he needs to be alone and find time to compose himself. This needs a lot of understanding and patience.
If in a or two month, he still does not contact you, calm yourself and accept your loss. In the first place, love means setting it free.
You are young and so is your world. Go out! You might discover a better and greater love out there!
Good Luck!
2006-10-05 02:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The distance has him thinking he might as well end it, but doesn't know how to tell you this, without hurting your feelings, so he's just avoiding doing so, in hopes you will get the hint. For he has your contact information, and if he wanted to get a hold of you, he would have. However I doubt it has anything to do with his not loving you, just that it's too far to maintain a relationship.
2006-10-05 02:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that you cant get ahold of him. You shouldnt feel like you failed at anything, you have done all you can to contact him. Unfortunatley it appears that he is no longer interested, I would not sit around waiting for him to call,go out with friends, have fun and if he does call see if things can be worked out.If he doesnt call soon though you might want to find another boyfriend.
2006-10-05 02:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he may have a legitimate excuse ? But sounds to me like you gave it your all ! So maybe you just need to get over him and move on with your life.
2006-10-05 02:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess u better move on too.. maybe he was not serious bout the relationship. and he want u to know this now. so dont stop for him
2006-10-05 02:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young.... so let me give you some advice, get over it. Don't get into serious relationships yet.
2006-10-05 02:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by firefrost8k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he doesn't hate you, he's probably just moved on and found another gf... you should move on as well.
2006-10-05 02:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by AirborneSaint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋