i'm 14, right now i dont have a gf, and i think that i like a guy. i have a couple of clases with him. he is nice, cute, muscular, and friendly. and also he is gay. i know it for 100 % - he doesn'r hide it. for last couple of days i was staring at him all the time. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-10-04 18:36:39 · 11 answers · asked by ostrich 78 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
you are adorable. at 14 there are lots of reasons you may be noticing your same sex. at your age you are making comparisons and finding out what it means to hold your sexual identity. it is very understandable that you would be looking to others of your sex for answers.
im not going to answer your question, but here is something: make sure you are asking yourself the right question. sometimes you can be intrigued because there is something about him you respect or want for yourself. it may seem that you are "inerested" in him, but you may just be searching for who you are and he has something that you admire. he seems to be someone that is ok with himself. that is usually admired by people who want to feel resolved. who knows. but i wouldnt think that just because you are intrigued by a person and he happens to be gay that you are too. it isnt as simple as that.
2006-10-04 18:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by abbie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does that grossed out feeling turn up given which you sense in charge? Society has a tendency to place a sprint guilt on adult men who've intercourse with adult men -- tremendously bi-adult men. My husband is bi (and that i'm bi, too), and that i comprehend that usually he's extra 'gay' than right this moment performing. while he swings over to the 'gay section' he likes -- i do no longer comprehend the thank you to place this gently, yet he has a tendency to get into oral and a sprint anal play than huge-unfold intercourse. in case you're bi-sexual, it might in basic terms be which you're swaying from feeling extra 'gay' into feeling extra 'right this moment' and the guilt of it truly is what be making you sense 'weird and wonderful'. Are you an adolescent? If, so, it truly is beneficial to take it sluggish without work from having intercourse and doing a sprint examining and a few self-discovery as to what you're finding for in a individual. Random intercourse isn't healthful whether it truly is bi intercourse or right this moment intercourse or gay intercourse. in case you're an older individual, it truly is beneficial to seek for out a therapist this is a professional for persons who're gay/bi/and so on.
2016-10-01 23:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you luv!
You're just at that period and age where you are curious about other lifestyles. Consider yourself lucky you are open minded enough to actually admit to yourself you have these cravings for another guy!
I wouldn't worry about labelling yourself "str8" or "gay" yet; you are too young to start asking yourself these deffinite questions. Just enjoy life, keep an open mind, and experiment all you want, just make sure you use adequate protection!
2006-10-05 02:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, boy, you are very young to decide on your sexual vocation right now. If you really like this guy as a person, keep friends with him but find a nice girl to date and forget all about a sexual relationship with him.
If you are still attracted to men when you grow older, then you decide what you will do.
Good luck!
2006-10-04 18:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by ngiapapa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey there
There is absolutely abnormal about being attracted to a guy and I see no reason why you should need to date a girl until you're older. That suggests that there is something wrong with homosexual attraction, and there isn't/
You can be unisexual, bisexual, or even trisexual (give anything a go once).
Be yourself mate, things will work themselves out
2006-10-04 18:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kalukalani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your are interested in being with a guy. Like experimenting or maybe deep inside you really are gay or bi. whatever it is be true to your self. In this day and age there is nothing wrong with being gay or bi As long as it makes you happy
2006-10-04 18:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
reflect and figure out if you really like this guy then decide if you want to do something about it or not...
Note that there are a lot of posers out there for attention--he might be/act gay until college.
2006-10-04 18:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you truely like him, just go for it. Its better than hidding in the corner waiting for him to like you. Do what you think is the right choice.
2006-10-04 18:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by icefreezie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not straight u r gay so go and get ur man! dont worry about what people say because i know thats next. dont be afraid, just do it!
2006-10-05 03:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by beautiful2dabones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either its the hormones talking or that your a bi if your still interested in girls
2006-10-04 19:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Surfer_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋