okay theres this guy that i was "with" for awhile. but then my bestfriend started dating him so we stopped talking. but lately we have been talking a lot about how we want to be with each other but my friend claims to be in love with him. we have attempted to have sex a couple times but i always felt horrible for doing that to my friend, so we didnt. and he says he is breaking up with her so we can be together and not worry about sneeking around, but he hasnt yet. and i REALLY adore him. he is the only guy ive ever met that gives me this feeling i get around him. and he claims he loves me. but he wont break up with her, so to me if he really loved me he would but he says he doesnt want to hurt her by breaking up wiht her, but he will cheat on her with me and i explained to him it would be worse to keep leading her on. when all hes doing is lying to her. ugh i really want to go be with him and hes coming to get me soon but i dont want to hurt my friend.
2006-10-04 17:58:30 · 6 answers · asked by Ky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
alot of guys will say that just to make you believe they love you. don't fall for it. he wont leave her for you or anyone else ot there unless your friend breaks it off. having sex is a no no till you asre at least 18. i am 22 and engaged to be married and i ave never been like that
have been in love and been through relationships where all he wanted was sexc with me while in love with someone else. so don't fall for it ok..
2006-10-04 18:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy knows exactly what he is doing. Why not get rid of him and find someone who wants to be 100% devoted to you. Love triangles cause nothing but pain for everyone involved. You can do better than this guy? Don't you think you deserve better?
2006-10-05 01:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i disagree with space case, this has nothing to do with cake, you are a horrible friend who should be beatin and he is a cheater, hopefully your "friend" that you care so much about finds out SOON and drops you both. i doubt she deserves what the two of you are doing to her. you need jerry springer to work this crap out
2006-10-05 03:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by chip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he has to choose;; you or her. But be sturn when u tell him, truely mean it. See what he does, if he chooses u or her. If he cant decide then he doesnt feel as strongly as you do about him. It's not worth all the trouble for you to wait as he plays the "guessing game."
2006-10-05 01:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Marie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. He has lust for you. he prob did it to you with her. If not he will do it to you with her or someone else move on get over him. TOTALLY HARD I KNOW. but you are better then that and so is she. You need to tell her what you did. you will feel better. you need to find someone else. you can
2006-10-05 01:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by LIZZY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a fool he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
2006-10-05 01:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by space case 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋