I was at my friend's house the other night and her boyfriend snuck over. I didn't care about that, but then later on he rubbed my leg under the blanket when all three of us were on the couch. I thought it was my friend so I didn't say anything. When he told me it was him it was a little wierd. My friend just laughed. Later he grabbed my butt a few times and they both just laughed at that too. And then, all 3 of us were on the bed, him and my friend under the covers, me over, like sitting on his legs. He was on his stomach lying on the bed, and he put his hand between his legs and wiggled his fingers, which just happened to be between my legs... My friend and he just laughed about that too. I found it a little strange that he did that when she was right there, and it was also wierd cuz he is 18 and I'm only 15. I don't know if I should talk to my friend and tell her that it bothered me, or if I should just leave it alone.
2006-10-04 17:53:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well first things first, I don't think it is good that your friend is dating an 18 year old. And there is a reason that he snuck over, he is disrespecting your friends parents. And I think it is so weird that they were laughing at his behavior, but then again she is 15. And I think she was too embarrassed and laughed about it. But I think you should just stay away from him. And just leave when he comes over, or hangs out with you guys.
2006-10-04 18:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by biochick11220 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember being that age. Your friend is immature and doesn't think an 18yr guy touching you is a big deal. I know that because she laughed and he was supposed to be HER boyfriend. If she cared, she would have him to stop. Friends like her would most likely laugh if you told her how you felt. Your best bet would be to avoid being alone with the both of them if possible. If you happen to be in a situation like that again, just move around. If he gets close, you move away. Don't let him be close enough to you to even smell his breath. If he tried to make a more severe move, she couldn't save you because she'd be too busy laughing. You may need to re-evaluate this friendship.
2006-10-04 18:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.BBA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your friend how you feel, especially if you were uncomfortable. He sounds like a pervert. Honesty is something a friendship should have. It is thebest thing in the end.
2006-10-04 18:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by pepepipes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is below any line of be responsible or be grow up person.
You better tell your parents to take better care of your education.
Is nothing right what happened anyway.
2006-10-04 17:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you then you DEFINATELY need to say something. If you don't want to approach this guy about it then let your friend know. If that doesn't work then stop hanging with her when he's around.
2006-10-04 17:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have bothered her too but she probably wants to let him do what he wants.
When I was younger I found that alot of guys flirted in front of their girlfriends like nothing. It really bothered me too.
2006-10-04 17:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD BAD BAD. YOu need to tell him NO!! if he doesn't listen tell your parents it isn't your fault. That is sexual harrasment and if you friend thinks that is funny she is NO FRIEND AT ALL. That type of behavior can lead to other stuff. Like RAPE. stay away from that.
2006-10-04 18:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by LIZZY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a pervert and a molester. You are only 15. Stay away from him and your friend who isn't a real friend. They want a threesome. They are very disturbed people, stay far far away.
2006-10-04 17:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her you didn't appreciate it. I would avoid these 2 altogether at least as long as she is with him.
2006-10-04 17:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur too young to be in ther company, get new decent friends
2006-10-04 17:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋