Several months ago my girlfriend made a huge scandal because I had a myspace account that was not at all intended for me to meet other girls, however she thought otherwise..My biggest mistake was that I never told her I had a myspace account which enfuriated her almost making her never want to talk to me again. I have alot of old friends and current known friends who I maintain contact with on myspace, it's a totally friendly thing, I even have a picture of my girlfriend and I together on the picture page..
Well today she was at my computer while I was taking a nap and looked through my history and found that I was looking through people's profiel pics last night. We had a huge arguement and she is angry at me because I promised her back then I would never use myspace again without telling her and I didn't. I admit I'm wrong about that. But now she says I am a liar she cannot trust. I dont have any contrl over that. I'd be willing to do anything to win her trust back except be myself.
2006-10-04 17:49:34 · 5 answers · asked by Eddie A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what I meant was that I am willing to do anything except NOT be myself..
2006-10-04 18:07:30 · update #1
It is your girlfriend who should be trying to get your trust back! that young lady had no right to snoop around in your PC.
2006-10-04 17:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only thing that will save you now is time. In time (as long as you continue to do right by her) she will come to trust you again. Take on your myspace and show her your comments. Let her see that it is purely for friendship and not a pick up scam. Take the extra step and offer to set her up an account and show her how to work it. She will be addicted in no time and understand why you are. Then you can send her cute messages when she's not around. Make sure she has access to your myspace account at all times. Good luck. Trust is usually freely given but hard to regain after it is broken.
2006-10-04 18:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything except be yourself? I don't get your last sentence. But the short answer to your questions is, you win her trust back with your actions and not just cheap talk. Looking at other singles' profiles is not a good way to make her feel all warm and fuzzy about you.
Your current actions suggest that you don't really value your current girlfriend and that you want to sabotage this relationship passively.
2006-10-04 18:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are hints of doubt in every decision, and how you react after the breakup can either confirm or contradict those doubts. Begging, pleading, and groveling will not win her back. Behaviors and actions portraying you as needy or desperate will only support her impulse to end your relationship.
You'll also commit the critical mistake of turning her support group against you. Every action and mistake you've made is multiplied as it's discussed and examined at length with her family and friends. In most cases, the less they have to talk about the better your situation will be.
Every woman wants what they can't have, and if you've stopped calling, texting, and sending emails every twenty minutes they'll want to know why.
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2015-02-09 07:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about gaining her trust back because if she was looking for your wrong doings then she didn't trust you completely in the first place.
But to be honest you really can't gain it back you have to earn it,
Let her chat on your myspace account one night if you truly have nothing to worry about, and then help her set up her own account.
If your account is for example "Tommy", set hers up as Tommys_girl
Tell her how you feel about her and explain why you didn't tell her about the account, make her feel a little bit more comfortable about the whole thing.
Good luck
2006-10-04 17:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that your girlfriend is a bit of a drama queen..she is going a bit overboard checking your history to see what you've done online, it seems kind of weird to me that she did that... maybe shes needing an excuse to break up the relationship.. since she is not taking your word and trusting you maybe you should rethink about getting her trust back in the first place.
2006-10-04 18:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by B* 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i found also my bf having only and 1 photo of friendster, only 1(a lady) and he told me that was a past friend nothing special about her that's why he never mentioned it to me.....now im slowly losing my trust with my bf.the only thing i want him to do now is to be honest and true to me. How? i dnt know....
2006-10-04 17:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by re 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can regain her trust over a period of time if the cost is worth it by checking what you cause her to observe. Check out that jealousy. It might be helpful in the longrun for you to check out how far that goes.
2006-10-04 18:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋