change? i like my exboyfriends brother. And he dumped me three days ago.
I'm a horrible friend. and a horrible person. what can i do to change?
2006-10-04 17:49:07 · 10 answers · asked by Bailee S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i mean like everyone else has a million problems and i have no time for my own problems.
2006-10-04 17:54:02 · update #1
dont be hard on yourself
2006-10-04 17:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already taken the first step in acknowledging that something needs to change. Look at other friendships and examine why they last. What qualities do others friends have or share that you lack? Don't be a phoney, but you CAN change certain aspects of your personality to be a better person. You can become more caring. You can exhibit friendliness to others. You can become a better listener. You can take the risk of reaching out to someone and showing them that you like them and want to become better acquainted. If you take the telescope off of yourself and aim it at others, before you know it, you will have friends and be happier. Start new today, dont put yourself down, tell yourself that you are a person worthy to know and worthy to be liked. Try to please others and you will end up pleasing yourself.
2006-10-05 01:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by kitty K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the best lessons in life are learned the hard way. Learn from it and move on. Also, it's not like you killed someone or something. It doesn't make you a bad person if you realize your mistake and don't make it a habit.
2006-10-05 00:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by White Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not EVER put yourself down. Be gentle to yourself. After all if you feel this way about yourself how can you expect others to like & love you.
We have no control over our hearts, our feelings & emotions. Perhaps you stayed in the relationship just to be close to his brother. Honesty. Love is the answer. Be positive.
2006-10-05 00:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop looking at friends to go out with all that does is makes the guys tell lies about u [not nice ones]you can find b/fs without them being friends
2006-10-05 00:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by slphillips_67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What need to be changed? you meant by liking your ex's brother??
2006-10-05 00:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mochi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get out of him - why he dumped u... change there !!
2006-10-05 00:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sid Has 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, well why is it that you think you are a horrible person, start with changing that.... but don't be so hard on yourself!! Chin up, head up... shoulders straight, stiff upper lip.......... You'll get along fine!!
~CHEERS!!~
2006-10-05 00:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is the question? I am not a psychic and have no idea what you think you need to change.
2006-10-05 00:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be QueıTe
2006-10-05 00:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by severler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋