2006-10-04 17:25:45 · 15 answers · asked by Michael S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good luck!
If she has half a brain, she will tell you to drop dead. You don't break up with someone and then decide you want them back like that.
Who do you think you are?
2006-10-04 17:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Remember all the reasons you broke up in the first place. You are meant to move forward, not back. If it didn't work the first time what makes you think it would now? Good luck. Meeting new people and rediscovering yourself is what it's all about now. You've spent so much time in a relationship doing what "we" like, try to spend sometime doing what you like. When i left a 3 year relationship i forgot what music i actually lked cause we always listened to stuff we both enjoyed. Find the upsides of being single for a while!
2006-10-05 00:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Most people do this in middle of hurting because they turn selfish. Think why you want her back. Maybe its because you can only see her with you... maybe, even though you guys are broken up, you get jealous if you think she's dating?
One thing is for sure, you broke her heart and by having a change of feelings you'll only be messing with her mind.
2006-10-05 00:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by gregthedesigner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful what you wish for...you may get it. First off...be SURE this is what you want before pursuing her again because if you change your mind again this would be hurtful and mean. Also...remind yourself of all the reasons you broke up with her in the first place, and ask yourself if anything has changed, are you willing to accept her as she is...think long and hard
2006-10-05 00:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.
Do nothing for about 2 weeks. There is a reason ( I hope) that you broke up with her. You'll need this time to let your emotions settle and see things clearly.
It ok to have mixed emotions, but give yourself some air and don't call. It'll make it worse.
2006-10-05 00:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you think you want her back because now there is no one else there. you got so used to being with some one and now you aren't with her anymore and feel alone. give it time and i bet you will feel better. or if the feeling doesn't go away then you really like her and screwed up big time. you just have to hope that she wants you back.
2006-10-05 00:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why all of a sudden do you want her back?? were you seing someone else and it just didnt work out....breaking up with someone is not a game...feelings get hurt...and emotions get involved...i think you should just let her go on with her life...you dumped her.... dont force her to relive that moment...she might be really trying to move on ...personally i think that you thought you could find something better...and when it didnt happen thats when you decided to call on your ex....guess that saying is true....YOU NEVER MISS WHAT YOU GOT TIL IT'S GONE.
2006-10-05 00:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by tanya m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have the reasons that you broke up with her changed ?? Thats the first thing you have to figure out.
2006-10-05 00:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by DEADGONE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing until you decide that you desperately want her back. You put "at least think I want her back."
2006-10-05 00:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation right before college you are always going to want her back its how it will always be its in your heart that you love her that much and will def. always want her to come back but do what your heart tells you not your mind
2006-10-05 00:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by omeka86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋