I have been friends with someone for 2 years and we have had the most dramatic friendship any two people could have. He fell in love with me, I didnt give him the time of day. I experienced things with other guys, he was crushed. He met someone else. He left to Sweden to be with her, but the time before he left, he said he wasnt sure if he was going to miss me more than a friend. I realized I was in love with him. He came back because he wanted to be with me. The whole thing was a lie, he came back because Sweden wasnt for him and the girl is coming back here to be with him. While he was there, he said they broke up in Sweden but another lie. Their plan was to come back here and live their lives together. Even when she was here, he cheated on her with me. Even when he was away in sweden, he wrote me saying he missed me and loves me. To this day, he cheats on his girlfriend with me. I am a horrible person. I want to know who his heart belongs to. One day he says her and the next me.....
2006-10-04 17:07:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My..This is hard for you, I REALLY do know..Been the other woman, it's not an easy or desirable position to be in. My only advice to you is force him to make a choice, YOU or Her!! That is the only way you, my dear, can keep your sanity and feel good about yourself..You obviously care for him, but, you are not getting what you deserve..You are not horrible, just hopelessly in love..Make him choose, Make him be honest, then you can be honest with yourself!!! Can you tell, Been there,, Done that?? Best of Luck!!
2006-10-04 17:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is once a cheater always a cheater sound like he does not want to take that step to be with just one person and no its not you there is some one out there for you that will treat you the way you should be treated i was in the same boat but know i got a great husband and a 7 month old
2006-10-05 00:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats terrible! how can u do that to the girl in Sweden? you had ur chance and u blew it! Tough deal...move on, find another guy, let him and the girl in Sweden live happily ever after.
2006-10-05 00:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by acnpswim@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His heart doesn't belong to both of you. He just enjoy in playing with both of you girls. Don't waste your time..he's a loser, absolutely..
2006-10-05 00:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by yanti b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You deserve better! No woman should have to share her man.
If he really loved you, he would only be with you.
2006-10-05 00:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not he is a fool you are not
to blame be there fo your friend shes going to
need someone to talk to
2006-10-05 00:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by robert w. b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his heart belongs to no one, he is just a cheating jerk
2006-10-05 00:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in for a rude awakening, sweety.
2006-10-05 00:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that little of yourself that you are willing to settle for that little
2006-10-05 00:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by devinelixir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his heart belongs to neither.......leave him to ROT in his own game of hearts.......& you carry on with life......don waste your time on wats not worth it!!!!
2006-10-05 00:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by lynora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋