The night before my 13 birthday this really really hot guy that goes to my school tried to F****me we took it as far as the portie poty (we were at a fair.)my best friend called me on my cell but i thought it was my step mom so i freaked out and left to meet my best friend then go find my dad so we could go home What should i have done?
2006-10-04 16:54:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetie, anybody who is asking other people what she should have done is not ready for a sexual relationship. You did the right thing in leaving.
2006-10-04 16:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by j3nny3lf 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you done the right thing. Don't have sex yet, you have your whole life to do that wait a little longer. Believe me your first time is special, i wish i would have waited. I started having sex when i was 13 and i had a baby by 14. Even if you decide to do it, please protect yourself....it is well worth it. And don't do it in a porta pottie anyway, that is just gross, think of all the germs, do you really want to have an intimate moment with the smell of crap in the air???? Do it the way you want, when you want,.. don't let anyone talk you into anything. Its always about you, no matter what any boy tells you. You were right to leave and i am proud of you for that... its your body, the only one you get, so be careful with it.
2006-10-04 23:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by nascar_cr8zy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow uhhm sweety you shouldn't be having sexual contact with guys at such a young age...you have no clue how much it ruins your body and your overall health. I made the mistake of having sex at a young age like you and i regret it so much. You rlly truly shouldn't have sex with some guy just because he is hot...most likely he is taking advantage of you and then after he does stuff with you the whole school will know and sooner or later or prolly even right at this moment your parnets know. I am rlly hoping that you will take my advice... please wait until you are with someone you love to give up your body to...besides that, there are so many sexually transmitted diseases that pple have n if he was desperate enuff to do you in a portie-potty at the fair then im sure he had sex with many other girls already and will continue having sex after he is finished with you. Believe me, I have gone through all of this before and i ended up pregnant at the age of 16 and the father of my child was going around having sex with other girls, but now i just got married, have full custody of my child, and love the man i am with. Please dont make the same mistake i did in my life.
i hope this helps
2006-10-05 00:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by sweet as candy =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the asian context, 13 is simply too young to have sex. i dont really encourage that. take time to learn more about relationships before plunging into the sexual aspects. it may be a good feeling or enjoyment, but before you are ready, u should not do it. not only do you risk getting pregnant, you also risk getting diseases like AIDS. think before you allow this to happen to you. thankfully the call came and you change your mind. it was the call that made you change your mind, not you. be really careful.
2006-10-05 00:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 13, you should never have been in that situation to begin with. Stop and think long and hard before ever even considering sex at your age. Enjoy your teen years without having to worry about the responsibilities and risks of having sex at such a young age.
2006-10-04 23:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by cookiefactory4 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Were you two just gonna mess around or make out or actually "do it"?
If the latter...
WHY are you "f"ing so young? At least wait until your sixteenth birthday or seventeenth, or later. You won't regret it. That phone call prevented a lot of complications you know.
2006-10-05 00:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you certainly should not have gotten in the portie pottie with him.
You should lay off the heavy petting stuff; kissing is even too far for you to go.
You apparently have an itchy crotch for a 13 y/o, so you need to keep your lust in check for a few years!
2006-10-04 23:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Exactly what you did... stop right in your tracks! At 13 you are so far from ready to have sex... and do you really want your first time to be in a nasty porta potty??? UGH thats just gross.... good luck, and keep your pants on for a few more years, please!
2006-10-05 00:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the sex would have been pretty bad. It is not even worth thinking about. It is not hard to find a man to f*ck you, just look in their eyes and smile. You should stick with same sex experiences until u r older.
2006-10-05 20:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF are you thinking!!!!! You are way TOO young to have sex! PERIOD! Good thing you left and nothing happened. Do you want to end up pregnant at 14 and throw your life away???? I'm 23 and I have a 2 year old. Children are a handful and you can get pregnant from having sex carelessly like you were about to do.
2006-10-04 23:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by VMG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋