The hubby thinks he is being short changed.
2006-10-04 16:54:30 · 21 answers · asked by teacher_tamala 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
everyday b-4- baby...now maybe 2 or 3x a week
2006-10-04 22:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by figgy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your hubby feels like he getting short changed it doesn't matter how often other couples are having sex.
Be glad he is communicating this to you and not seeking sexual pleasure elsewhere.
You need to find a happy medium.
Are there reasons you don't enjoy sex as much? Is it the same old same old every time. Is he satisfying your sexual needs or is he only thinking of himself. Is sex painful or uncomfortable for you. Are you experiencing orgasms? There can be many reasons.
Why not seek some counseling and find out what makes each other tick.
Sex isn't the only thing in marriage, but I feel it can be the glue that holds things together.
happiness and peace
2006-10-04 17:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately all men think they r short changed with sex
add children into the mixture and ur lucky if they get it two or three times a month add a job and stress into the picture maybe once to twice a month!
My hubby is an over the road truck driver and we have children but we do try for at least two times a month if we're lucky!!!
2006-10-04 17:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by wolfpack0810 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends really.I have been married 15 nearly 16 years and we have always had sex between 3 to 4 times a week,but then we can also go through fazes where we just want it all the time morning noon and night.( but those fazes don't last too long,maybe for 2 or 3 days here and there)
2006-10-04 18:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been married for 4 years. We get in grooves where we will do it 5-6 times a week for a few weeks, but we also have gone a month or more without doing it, especially if one of us is sick or super tired from work or something.
Everyone is different, I'd say short changed is less than 3 times a month. Maybe twice depedning on your schedules.
2006-10-04 17:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not married---just living w/ my Karmic Lego for the last year & 1/2+... (marriage will happen eventually....!)
And we never have sex.
We make love---always.
Sometimes it may be kinda wild & primative; & verbs I'm not allowed to say on here w/out getting a violation from YA police...
Other times it's sweet & passionate & slow....you get the idea.
But it's always about being in & making love.
If the hubby feels short-changed, maybe you didn't clean out your "dooky" enough!!
Good grief...is that even a word???!!!
2006-10-04 17:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We have been together since Valentines 1968 and at first if we put a penny in a 5 gallon jug for each time they would be filled. I got injured in 1980 and he got hurt in 1984. And we haven't had sex since July 1994. We were BEST friends before we were lovers and we are still both.
2006-10-04 17:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by chilover 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Usually EVERYDAY but at the very worst case scenerio it's no more than 48 hours without sex. Me and my husband made eachother a promise that we'd NEVER go more than 48 hours without sex and we've now been Very Happily Married for over 12 years :)
2006-10-04 16:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If not every day, it's every other day. No complaints here. Very rarely, we'll skip 2 days.
Although, sadly, I hear that that's not the average for most married couples. I guess we just have a great sex life.
2006-10-04 17:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by LadyMagick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was married, *I* was the one who was "short changed." Why do people always think it's the MAN who's rarin' to go and not the woman? It CAN work the other way around, you know!
2006-10-05 00:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by Helaine D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once or twice a month-sad but true. Kids really made changes with our sex life-especially on my part.
2006-10-04 17:01:15 · answer #11 · answered by JenJen 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋