My boyfriend totally lied to me for at least 3 of our 6 mth. relationship...first I found a court document regarding a son he'd failed to mention...told me since he don't have contact with him he did'nt think it mattered,then I checked his voicemail and it was this girl he said he'd long ago stopped having contact with.....I know it's not a sexual thing there is no time for that in his schedule,he's home at lunch and immediately following work,so why lie?He told me it's hard to make this female stop calling,but still,whatever....now I wonder what e;se there is that I don't know,I even asked him,he says nothing..I just can't help wondering still...they say third times a charm-but I don't know if I want to wait for the third lie.....how do figure out if I can trust him again?
2006-10-04 16:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by nikeiaamie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give him another chance. He could be getting stalked by her. Did he paid his child support? If he isn't and she wants money dump him. If doesn't care enough to support his kid, he isn't worth being with.
2006-10-04 16:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can figure out your tolerance levels, but for me when I start asking questions like you have ,I'm a long way down the road of total distrust. Good luck, you need it.
2006-10-04 16:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all i hope you are using protection with him because theres always time to get some ***. if you can't really trust him, whykeep him.there's plenty of others out there
2006-10-04 16:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant.he is a liar if someone lies to u once than theyll do it again.well im single/male/20yrs old if ur interested let me know
2006-10-04 16:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by ammityville420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have evry reason to not trust this guy, he lies and he has no reason for it, oi lev his *** be4 you get hurt, once the trust is gone there is no way you can ever trust him,
2006-10-04 17:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by mysterious26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dout everything they tell you and u wil know because you will have to think about it.
2006-10-04 16:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by A train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your brain and set him up.
2006-10-04 16:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust them again!!! beieve me.. i learned the hard way!!!
2006-10-04 16:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋