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My best friend recently lost her virginity to this guy, that she is not dating. She feels she wants the title to be his gf, but he claims he doesnt want to rush into a relationship. She claims she is going to stop having sex wit him, so she can see his true intentions. I feel he just wants sex out of her. When she lost her vcard, he said he wanted to make it special. Yet special is definitely not in a car. I dont feel he's right for her. What would u tell your best friend/or what do you think of the situation

2006-10-04 16:50:31 · 9 answers · asked by ace30815 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

the said part about it is that she is my ex..and she feel im just jealous

2006-10-04 16:59:36 · update #1

9 answers

he said he didnt want to rush the relationship??? he already did by having sex! WHAT A DIMWIT the guys an idiot for sure tell her he's defanitely the wrong guy

2006-10-04 16:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Erikawithasmile 4 · 0 0

Sit down and talk to your friend about the situation and try to make her see what you see by telling her about the way the guy is doing her.Let her know that if he wanted to make it special for her,he would have not had sex with her in a car,he would have waited until they were in a relationship and he would have waited untill he had real feelings for her and when he was in love with her.All he really did was played her and used her for sex.Let her know that you are only telling her this cause you care about her and you are not jealous,you are just looking out for her and you would want for her to do the same for you too.So do your best at trying to make her see it from your point of view.Good luck and GOD Bless.

2006-10-04 17:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.pierre3 2 · 0 0

Tell her exactly how you feel and what you think about her relationship,or lack of it, with this guy. Your friend is being used and abused. Let her know you care about her and that she needs to drop this person like a hot potato because he is really bad news. And wouldn't it be a nightmare if she got pregnant with him?

2006-10-04 16:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0 0

I would tell my friend to lie to the girl to keep the sex coming. A few "I love yous" and some public hand holding should keep him in her pants and mouth for at least a month.

2006-10-04 16:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She gave it up to a guy who just wanted sex. She clearly has need issues tell to watch herself before she gets the rep as a slut.

2006-10-04 17:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0 0

tell her to wake up and smell the roses he aint intrested in relationship he want a bunk up hes using her but as a friend just be there when she comes back down to earth with a bump ( when he dumps her and gets his next virgin )

2006-10-04 16:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by lady_luck 3 · 0 0

the best u can do is talk to her an voice her opinion because least you know you tried you didnt sit back an let her get hurt,,,,an she cant be like well why didnt u help me

2006-10-04 17:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by hocsoc779 2 · 0 0

"You can't withhold what you already gave up."
Toss him like last week's newspaper.

2006-10-04 16:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

"you idiot! how the hell could you sleep with a guy you weren't even in a relationship with?!"

2006-10-04 16:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by undecided_guy 1 · 0 0

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