Why, why oh why, can I not have sex for more than like, 30 minutes before it starts to hurt? And why, why why why can't I do it two times in a row? My fiancee and I RARELY have sex (waiting for the marriage) but there's always that occasional time we just give in. Could it be because we never do it and my body isn't used to it?
2006-10-04 16:24:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
"My fiancee and I RARELY have sex (waiting for the marriage) but there's always that occasional time we just give in." HAHAH that is so funny!!! You do know that that won't make you a virgin on your wedding night. Anyways, I have the prob also....When I was just dating my now husband we would do it 4 times a day sometimes but now that we are married and live together I cant do it more then once a day. It hurts why we have sex and it hurts when we are done. I did start using Replens Long-Lasting Vaginal Moisturizer...it works great! But you have to use it every other days. Here is a link http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=12711&catid=682&trx=GFI-0-EVGR-91292&trxp1=60&trxp2=12711&trxp3=1&trxp4=65&btrx=BUY-GFI-0-EVGR-91292
They also have a another one that gives you more cream, but it does not have Pre-filled One-Use Applicators, it just has a tube of cream and one applicator that you have to reuse. I don't like the thought of having to keep reusing the same applicator. But you can find that one at http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=139391&catid=29959&trx=GFI-0-EVGR-91292&trxp1=60&trxp2=139391&trxp3=1&trxp4=66&btrx=BUY-GFI-0-EVGR-91292
2006-10-04 16:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-29 07:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this happens to me all the time om over 30 and have been married before and am married now. for some odd reason if your like me its like if you wait awhile between the times you have sex its like the first time all over again also maybe alttile gulity for doing it before your married. im not judging my husband tried to wait to but its hard and then you go ahead and feel bad and you wait and then one night it happens again. people make mistakes yes your suppose to wait. but its not always the case. also your body my be bulit differently i have a tilted uterus that makes it hurt. when your ready maybe after you married try being on top that way you control how fast or slow and how much you want to take the key is to not to be forward but wet buy the warming lotion at wallmart it works to help with friction it takes women longer to get ready for sex than men it take me 20 to 30 minutes before my body can relax for it to be comfortable and ive been married 6 years and before that 7. just to be sure i would call my obgyn to be on the safe side.
2006-10-04 16:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think about it, you're whacking your insides with a meat stick repeatedly for thirty minutes - it's going to get a bit bruised. And then to try doing that again afterwards, once all the good feeling vibes have subsided and the bruising and inflamation has kicked in? Ouchy!
2006-10-04 16:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be because of the frequency, but i doubt it. You should go to the MD and get checked out just in case. You never know there may be something wrong. It never hurts to get the advice of a MD.
2006-10-04 16:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by sblomita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...depends what you mean by hurt.
after a while of continued intercourse, your own lubrication will decrease somewhat. have you tried a lubricant?
if there is another kind of pain, that might indicate a problem. i know that the muscles in the vaginal wall can spasm which i hear is painful.
don't be afraid to ask your gynecologist.
2006-10-04 16:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by trinity729 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a new product at the drugstore that works great..it is called...Replens. you only use it every 2-3 days...it works real good....and one more thing....RELAX
2006-10-04 16:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by mfroeh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...! i had the same problem a couple years ago...but slowly..very very slowly for me..it started to go away..and now it never hurts at all...
2006-10-04 16:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be having sex at all, you're not married yet.
2006-10-04 16:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by ChaoticChicaLovesJT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please contact your doctor, there are many medical issues that could cause this probelm and if not resolved could cause long term problems.
2006-10-04 16:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by B N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋