this girl i like did this?

Question

she said she like gummy bears and i told her i'll buy her some and when i gave em to her she kept sharing with her friends

that kinda insulted me becouse i bought it out of my own money for her not her friends

am i over exaderating or was it rude of her?

and it seems like everyone does that when i'v bought things for people in the past thay do this

Answer 1

I know it stinks she did this, but your just over reacting. Maybe she didn't realize you wanted that. Eithor way, maybe say "just for you". Something like that,, sometimes girls do that not really knowing. At least shes nice, shes sharing with people.But your giving the candy to her she can decide what to do with them technically. You just dont like it cause it was for her and not her friends.. well it happens buddy.. its life and how girls do things. Good luck!

Answer 2

No, she was sharing them to make more friends. Now if you had said each gummi bear is a passionate reflection of the love I have only for you, then maybe when she passed them out it would be insulting. Cut her some slack.

Answer 3

Maybe a little. I understand where you are coming from. You like this girl and you want her to see it as a token of your affect. But, she sees it as candy and a nice gesture, but wants to share herr favorite food with friends. try buying her jewelry and see if she will share that. (kidding) Besides, gummy bears are only a dollar, unless you bought them from it's sugar in atlantic city that can cost 4 to 10 dollars.

Answer 4

Well, I think you are being ridiculous, and selfish. They were gummy bears for god sake....not diamond earrings. Stop buying "sharable" types of gifts if you don't want the recipient to share them with others. I wonder how you would behave if she were to eventually get close with you, oh say maybe become your girlfriend, would you be selfish and not want to share her with others? I would not want a friend or boyfriend like that.

Answer 5

You should like th e fact that she likes to share and is not stingy. Cause this shows that she is a giving person and puts others besides herself. It is not that she is being mean or insulting it is just the way that she was raised. She is good nature you must be young if you feel this way. Don't take it personal.

Answer 6

If her friends were there when you gave them to her the polite thing for her to do is share.
I'm sure she felt your gift was very kind. It was the thought that counts. But it was a gift to her and she could do what she wants to with it. In her mind she knows you did a nice thing. You need to be thinking about how happy she was rather than dwelling on the fact that she shared with her friends.

Answer 7

It was sort of rude, but the next time you give her gummies or any candy, make sure she's not going to be with another friend, that way she can't possibly hurt your feelings.

Answer 8

You like her, yes.
She likes you, most likely no.

Does she even know you like her first of all, if yes, and she shared with her friends... then she's EVIL. (Every-Villian-Is-a-Lemon!)

Either that or the girl's friends extorted her for gummy bears. Haha! (: You can also choose to give me the gummy bears, I'll gladly eat it, but I'm smarter.

I'll eat it myself. :D

Answer 9

when you buy some thing for some one and give it to them, then it is their to any thing with it. you should have told her that they where for her only. you can say that she likes you cause she told her friends where they came from and you know that she is talking about you. or you can tell her that was rude and why it was rude, leave it at that and walk away, but don't be rude when you tell her or she will think that you area jerk.

Answer 10

YEAH THAT IS RUDE OF HER... IF YOU BOUGHT ME GUMMY BEARS I WOULD SHARE THEM WITH YOU ONLY... CUZ I'M NOT LIKE THAT GIRL THAT SHARED WITH YOUR FRIEND... AT LEAST I WOULD SHARE SOMETHING THAT SOMEONE BOUGHT FOR ME WITH THEM...