Am I pregnant?

Question

I was supposed to get my period like 3 weeks ago, the last time i had it was august 16-august 21. I've had sex with about four people since then and only protected twice. So there is a very good possibility i am. but i dont have money to get a test and i dont wanna tell my mom unless i know for sure i am. I've been getting sick in the late mornings. like around 10 or 11. by breast hurt SO bad and my nipples have darkened a little bit. and ive been peeing like 20 times a day. am i pregnant? please help.

Answer 1

That sounds like you're pregnant!~you definately need to talk to your mom now!

Why are you having sex with 4 peole in that amount of time if you're still young enough to answer to your mom? And why would you risk your life with no protection not once but twice???And if you don't have money for a pregnancy test, why would you risk bringing a baby into the world???That's way more expensive!

Talk to your mom ASAP, get a test, and get ready for a lot of lectures! You deserve 'em! If you are knocked up, then since you were doing it with more than one guy, you'll have to do a paternity test. What a mess you've gotten into. I'll look for you on Maury when you're trying to find your baby's daddy. Good luck!

Answer 2

You can miss a period and not be pregnant. Go to a pharmacy and get an over the counter pregnancy test. They are about $30 dollars. If you can't afford that talk to your school nurse (I'm assuming you are still in school) and I'm sure they can give you information about local health clinics that may be able to help you. You best bet is you tell you parents because they can help you. I know it sucks but later in life you will be glad that you took care of your health. The real issues here is that you had unprotected sex which can transmit STD's. You should be tested. You should also be getting regular PAP smears from your OB/GYN since you are having sex. This tests for cervical cancer which is caused by a very common STD. Hope this helps. Good luck and try to find someone in person you can talk to about these issues.

Answer 3

sounds like you have a lot of symptoms of pregnancy...fact is this... if you are over 14 you are allowed to talk to the doctor without your parents being in the room, and the doctor cannot talk about your personal issues to your parents without your concent. you can use your parents insurance to be seen by your doctor to determine pregnancy before your tell your parents anything. going to a clinic is also an option they are free and no one has to know that you have been there, get a friend to take you....if your not pregnant your should know that most clinics also offer free std testing and free condoms. the fact that you have been with 4 people in such a short period of time is very concerning at any age and i think if you fully understood the effects of stds and the astounding number of people infected you would be more cautious. however, i think the real issue here is your health. you need to know right away if your are indeed pregnant. it is very important for your health and the baby's health to get care right away.

Answer 4

Hi sweetheart,

Situations like this can be really scary but in order to get help you need to tell someone. Your Mum loves you unconditionally, although she might get angry she is the one who will be able to help you.

Firstly you need to take a pregnancy test, your symptoms sound like pregnancy, but to rule this out a test is important. These days the tests are very quick and accurate.

I am wondering why you are having sex with so many different people and this leads me to believe you may suffer low self esteem. You do need to have protected sex, you must be aware of the dangers appart from pregnancy, from unprotected sex.

It is important for you to get support, you may even need counselling. If you can't turn to your family, perhaps a school counsellor may be of assistance.

I wish you all the best for your future, learn from this and move forward.

Kindest regards,

Jackstar xx

Answer 5

There are family planning centers and women's clinics at every major city. They will draw your blood and test for pregnancy for free. They will also counsel you on birth control methods and give you free trial samples.

Whatever you do, do not wait. If you are pregnant, you need to face the reality and decide, as soon as possible. Tell your mom, grandma or aunt or other responsible adult about what happened. Your parents will get really upset but you've got to grow up and face the consequences. There is no way you can prevent them from finding out. Have courage!

Answer 6

Not sure. The symptoms lead to it, but it would be best to get a test. It seems as though you are, and the possibility would be 1/2, b/c only 2 out of 4 times protected. It you felt him 'release' or if you create eggs yet, then you might be. I know it sucks to tell your parents.. but rather not be waiting and all of a sudden have a baby. Tell your friend to help you so you can be prepared.

Answer 7

by what you are saying for sure that you are..but you could always go to a dollar store and you can normally get them for a dollar i did here at dollar daze..its worse if you keep it a secret but if you would like and have insurance go to a obgyn and tell them your symptoms and nine times out of ten they will give you..here where i live you do not need a parent with you to become a patient at an obgyn if yor minor..but yes like the others have said tell your mom and she could maybe help you get one and would help you fond an obgyn..good luck girl then i would let the two guys that you slept with unprotected that there is a chance they are going t be a daddy...be honest with them that they could be or could not be..

Answer 8

Well if you could lay down with four different people and have sex, Iam pretty sure one of the bums should have at least gave you $10.00 to go to the store and purchase a pregnancy kit, that is really sad, and were is you respect for yourself, you are worried about been pregnant you better be worried about(HIV).

Answer 9

Sounds like you are. Just to be sure, I would go to planned parent hood and the will do a test on you and know one needs to know. If you dont have money, you can fill out a form and they will pay for it for you. Good luck!

Answer 10

You are quit the irresponsible wench, aren't you?

If you cannot even afford a GD pregnancy test kit why are you having unprotected sex? And with multiple partners as well... That is just stupid, stupid, stupid. You're going to break you mother's heart when you tell her you don't know who the daddy is...
Go to Planned Parenthood. They can help you.
Here's a site to locate the one closest to you
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/

Your situation makes a strong argument for abortion.