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2006-10-04 15:57:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so was i, i grew up in a convervative familiy who taught that sex was 'bad'. out of marriage anyway...but it scarred me and i was afraid to make a move towards a guy at all and I had never kissed a guy. but then I met my boyfriend and he knew I had had no prior expierence, he was so nice, and it just felt right. just wait for the right person, dont rush. when it happens the naturally it is SOO nice
2006-10-04 16:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how come? If its because you havent done it before, than you are just like the rest of us.We all go through it, but when you with the right person all of that fear is gone. Looking back i dont really know why i would be scared of such a good thing. But yes its scary at first, but its also great. You will be ready when you know its the right time with the right guy.
2006-10-04 23:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then don't do it...I know that the pressure is very tough...believe me I have surcomed to it multiple times and have regretted it ever since. If you are so scared, wait until you find the right person and get COMPLETELY comfortable with them before you have sex. Then, when you do, it won't be so scary because you know that they won't leave you, and they can reassure you. DON'T RUSH INTO THINGS BEFORE YOU ARE OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL. I did this and no relationship lasts like that in high school.
2006-10-04 23:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time & person are right you should instinktivly know it
and be more comfortable . Mainly because the right person will
take their time and make sure that you are ok with it , they will be gental and loving also .
Sex between two people in love is the closest you can ever feel towards anyone in your life , it is the most beautiful act in the world !
2006-10-04 23:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure there is a reason to be scare of sex.
2006-10-04 23:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be! If I was single I would be so afraid to go out & find a new partner cause now days having sex is like going to Burger King have it your way & any kind of way with as many as you want.Just keep that frame of mind until it feels right for you.
2006-10-04 23:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why? How old are you?sex is lovely dont miss out it only hurt a min i was scare too but it takes a real man that knows what he doing
2006-10-04 23:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by sexygirl_looking4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO HOW OLD ARE YOU. IF YOUR STILL A TEENAGER IT'S OK TO BE SCARED. THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS YOU COULD CATCH. IF YOUR AN ADULT JUST TAKE IT SLOW AND EASY. LET YOUR PARTNER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. THEY'LL BE GLAD YOU SHARED THAT WITH THEM. THERE'S NOTHING TO BE AFRAID OF.
2006-10-04 23:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for what reason r u scared of it?
iam sure u had a bad experience with someone.
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2006-10-04 23:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by me_who2006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
watch some sex movies. Relax and you r ready.
2006-10-04 23:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by minimumdefect 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋