I've planned on staying a virgin my whole life. No kids, no nothing.
I love my husband.
I told him I wanted to wait until marriage
we're getting married tomorrow night
and I decided I'm not ever going to have sex with him
is he going to be mad?
2006-10-04 15:53:08 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO HE WILL WAIT UNTIL YOU GO TO SLEEP AND GO FIND A HOOKER CONGRATS
2006-10-04 15:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by teresa d 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
extremely NO, yet in case you loved the anal sex, and would opt for to do it better then you fairly can tell your new hubby that it became the perfect sex you ever had , you've not in any respect had sensations like that in the previous and would't wait to do it again. So in case you dont make a large deal of the virgin difficulty, yet pump him up that he's the perfect you ever had, then he wont care about your previous companions it truly is not any large deal firstly. playstation use a lot of lube and prepare kegels.
2016-11-26 03:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a choice to make: Either tell him you're not interested in sex, or don't marry him at all. Let him go; it's not fair to lead him on like this, then not pony up withe promise of sex.
I can understand your view on remaining a virgin, but you're not being truthful to him. You really should pick Option A and tell him upfront, BEFORE you even get dressed. Call him after you have read this message, and TELL HIM THE TRUTH!!!!!!!
2006-10-04 17:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. He'll probably be delighted that he doesn't have to worry about pleasing you. It's a pity you're spending all that money on a wedding when he'll go out the next day and start annulment proceedings, but hey! if that's what you want, go for it.
Was that your only question? You might have a few loose screws rattling around, but if that's all you wanted to know, that's the answer.
2006-10-04 15:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by old lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is very wrong of you to do such a thing this is his life just as much as your's . You should both be going into this marriage not with lies and deceit. Naturally he would be upset devistated and I wouldn't blame him if he got it annulled later.
YOu can';t play with people this way. If your ready to do this what else would you do once your married poor guy he's going to have a life of hell this way.
You owe it to him to be honest. don't be selfish here just cause you want to be married cause in the end you will lose and you'll be signing divorce papers sweety.
2006-10-04 19:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do not have sex with him he can anol the marriage and you will be out on your selfish butt, and it will serve you right , what type of guy would marry such a selfish person any way , he will be fooling around with in a month , have a nice life . short marriage . and suck it up when you re alonev and for your sake i hope this question is a dud and your pissed you you typed it
2006-10-04 16:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute I'm getting confused here! You call him 'husband' but you're yet to marry? Shouldn't he be your fiance? Are you playing us?
But anyways I think you are insane and pathetic too. I feel sorry for the fool that's marrying you and wish him all the luck, cuz he'll need it.
2006-10-04 16:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by 28yrs 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It might be a good idea to bring this up before tomorrow night. I don't think there is going to be a wedding.
Yes he is going to be mad. And more than likely he's not going to marry you.
What is wrong with you?
2006-10-04 15:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's going to be mad and a billion other negative emotions. You lied to him in one of the biggest ways you can. So um...how about talking to him about it now and asking him if he still wants to marry you? You OWE that to him.
2006-10-08 10:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. It is not fair to marry him with the intention of never having sex. It is your choice to abstain from sex, as it will be his choice to have an affair and cheat on you. How do you like that?
2006-10-04 16:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be kidding right?
I believe that would be considered "fraud", and make you a pretty mean person. Unless he has full permission to get it on with other women. But then why marry?
2006-10-04 15:57:59 · answer #11 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋