on wenday night at my church group after i play the songs i sit by myself
i'v asked people to save me a seat and thay are like yeah we will then thay give it to someone else
is there something wrong with me? or do thay not like me at all?
2006-10-04 15:37:12 · 14 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Strike up interesting conversations before hand. Possibly compliment them and make then feel comfortable around you. Show them you. They are sure to love you.
2006-10-04 15:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them. If there is one person in that group that you feel a little closer to than the rest, the next time you go to church, casually ask him/her "is there a reason ya'll don't save me a seat...i mean, am i missing something here?", and see how they answer. I wouldn't ask them to save me a seat again anyway though. A real friend doesn't have to be asked to save it. Good luck sweetie.
2006-10-04 22:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pray about it. After all this is a church group you are talking about. Teens, even christian teens are mean sometimes. Just remember to always be nice to them. Even if they don't respond to you being nice they will remember it later in life. What ever you do, do not stoop to their level. You are above that. Ask God to give you strength. Good luck and God bless.
2006-10-04 23:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by lovedietdp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some new friends and forget about them if there gonna flake out on you forget them never blame yourself its not you its them they just care about themselves and find a new church with new people to behonest I have never sticked with one church group or church keep on trying to you find the right people never limit yourself to finding new friends if you dont fit in the crowd find some new friends and you will be alot happier
2006-10-04 22:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had christian friends do that to me too. I think they are telling us they don't like us. To stay in the group, I just find another seat, but it is annoying. I'd sit by you if I could, hang in there.
2006-10-04 22:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by stick man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not nice friends I'd find some better ones. And these people go to church!
2006-10-04 22:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they suck move on find people who are friends theres nothing wrong with you i bet that when they need you to do something for them they will save you a seat that is how some people are .why dont you put your jacket or bookback on your seat and save it yourself dont depend on those so called "friends"
2006-10-04 22:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they more then likely don't want to hear from the elders or the decons,few people have reserved seats in any church
2006-10-04 22:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u still have not asked a friend yet to keep u a seat...so keep looking..
2006-10-04 22:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like they r stuck up and you'd be better with out
2006-10-04 22:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋