He directed my hand to play with is anal once during sex, he does anal sex, sometimes he makes gay jokes, and one time he said he liked men then said he was playing. If i say something like let another man watch us have sex or involving another man sexually period, he fly's off the wall saying i dont play that stuff. Is he possibly gay or maybe has had some type of encounter?
2006-10-04 15:33:52 · 12 answers · asked by Chocolate_Tai_69 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not gay- just likes haveing his anus stimulated. it is a very erogoneous zone for a lot of guys. Try massaging his prostate for him, it will drive him crazy and has absolutely nothing to do with being gay.
2006-10-04 15:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Hard to say some men like to expiernce anal sex w/ a woman to feel the diffrence between a vagina and an *** hole .
And there is alot of pleasure points in and around the anal.
And all the guys I have hung out with (which is a ton)
Joke around about being gay.
So dont jump the gun on this one.
2006-10-04 15:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by i love my 2 girls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first and foremost, I've dated several very straight men who've thoroughly enjoyed anal play during sex. It is a natural erogenous zone. I suggest that you search online for literature regarding that.
As far as the comments go, some men are quite uncomfortable expressing that they may have feelings of arousal for other men. He may actually be grossed out by it. Conversely, he may also be turned on at the idea, but not enough to actually go through with it.
The best thing I can tell you is to be open and honest with him, and let him know your concerns, and that anything he tells you is confidential.
2006-10-04 15:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by wxgddss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i happen to be very knowledgeable in this area...But that could be tricky to answer. Either he has some sexual identity issues or maybe he is curious ,But was raised in a household that was twistedly close minded so he never felt o.k. enough to even know if he is or isn't. In that case he probably freaks about it cuz' of inner issues.
2006-10-04 15:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by nauteebabee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your FRIEND? I don't know about you people, but me and my friends get together a lot and no one is playing with anus's here.
Are you looking to see if your boyfriend is BI? I think you should just talk to this guy and find out what the deal is, it's not like we can help you.
2006-10-04 15:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Cinderella 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's a homophob who just likes when you touch his anus. i think the prostate is the male g-spot anyways. or maybe hes insecure about his sexuality. i have no idea, haha.
2006-10-04 15:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be bi.as long as you love each other and enjoy what makes the difference.everyone has a dark side.
2006-10-04 15:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by sekharssajja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,he likes it when you play with his anus and they ask you soon to toss his salad.Are you up for it?
2006-10-04 15:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's gay.
2006-10-04 15:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I think he is
2006-10-04 15:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel Z 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋