What determines violence &, or violent behaviour?

Question

With regard to family relationship re:Husband & Wife?

Answer 1

i disagree with everyone that's answered so far; I think LOVE determines violence in that setting. Love and deficient communication.

More often than otherwise domestic violence is committed because the offending party cares so much about the victim & disagree on an life issue, either is frustrated by their behavior, hurt by them, or as part of sex

Answer 2

EITHER CAN BE VIOLENT THE GUY or the girl the biggest factor in relationship violence is drinking or drug use, next genetics "if you parents were violent good chance you will be". Then there is just RAGE that can cause violence like finding out the other is cheating. VIOLENCE in the relationship comes from violent people people those who are abusive to a lover are generally abusive aggressive in everyday life situations to. this question is not direct enough.

Answer 3

For the most part I think that the way a person acts out is already mapped out long before they are ever involved in a marriage. The determining factors will mostly stem from the environment that you grew up in and how you learned to handle or deal with stress. Most people learn their interactive skills from watching their parents and the learned practices usually trickle down from there. Now if the blue print or role models in your life were violent or acted out violently, then you are more likely to deal with adversity in the same ways. Breaking this kind of cycle of violence is difficult but not impossible. Hopefully, if you respect your spouse and value them as a person, things will never break down into violent reactions... if they do then please seek counseling.

Answer 4

Domestic violence, also known as partner abuse, spouse abuse, or battering, occurs when one person uses force to inflict injury, either emotional or physical, upon another person they have, or had, a relationship with. It occurs between spouses and partners, parents and children, children and grandparents, and brothers and sisters. Victims can any age, race, or gender.
Despite the magnitude of the problem, identifying domestic violence victims is still a complex task. It is difficult to determine whether someone fell or was pushed. Emergency and medical personnel are trained to screen patients for domestic violence.
Medical findings such as these should prompt direct questioning about domestic violence:
Central pattern of injuries.
Contusions or injuries in the head, neck or chest.
Injuries that suggest a defensive posture (to hands for example).
Types or extent of injury that are inconsistent with the patient's explanation.
Substantial delay between when the injury occurred and when the patient sought treatment.
Injuries during pregnancy.
Pattern of repeated visits to the emergency department.

Answer 5

In some cases it could be drink or drug related, but in a majority it could be frustration or simply there not suited to each other. communication is another, If couple no longer communicate its difficult to get to an end and often results in a rather aggressive argument. But don't think it is all the men that are aggressive, women can be as good or even better than a man.

Answer 6

Ive had experience of both verbal abuse and physical abuse and both stem from him drinking and using pot. He claims he loves me very much, but where is the respect? No human, male or female should have to be subjected to any abuse from a so called loving partner. I agree it is probably a multitude of underlying problems, insecurity, jealousy, all those things that people have listed, but if thats the case then professional help is needed. Hasnt evryone to some degree had some kind of emotional upheaval, some worse that others, granted, but we dont all go around bashing the living c**p out of the people we love.
Get professional help! If they wont do it then get the HELL OUT!
Im going to!!!!

Answer 7

Their up bringing or lack of.
It is clear the world has only limited time to change
it's custom of resolving conflicts violently.
It is uncertain whether we have the time to undo the damage done by countless previous generations,
nor do we know how many future generations it will take to transform our psycho biology of violence..
into one of peace.

Answer 8

violence is the result of violent behaviour

Answer 9

Does he or she verbally abuse you? Do they get angry easily? Do they use drugs or alcohol. Or have they grown up in a violent household? Those are several telltale signs.... Good luck!!!

Answer 10

Frustration,jealousy,Insecurity's and maybe how you were brought up as a child!