i have been seeing this guy for 3 years now. at every family outting my grandmothers goddaughter tells everyone she see how fine my friend is she has even ask me where did i find him because he is toooo fine. well at the last family outting he told me that she was trying to hit on him. i blow it off because she was very drunk that night.. well it has been over a month since the party and now she has told my real aunt that he tryed to hit on her...now he told me the same night it happen she waited a month later and told my aunt instead of me how should i treat this problem. should i trust him are should i trust her (one of my real aunts have told me she is not to be trusted and that she want stop talking about how fine he is and if she is not asking that she is asking about our relationship). after the party a week later we had girls nite out and she was there but she did not tell what happen that nite the only thing she said was that the guy across from our table look like him
2006-10-04 15:20:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't trust her. Family and friends can sometimes be deceiving if they think it will make them look better, some won't but in your case I would listen to what everyone is saying. It sounds like it is her and not your bf. If he has never even hinted, or gave you any reason not to trust him before, then why start now. I would ignore her and next time you see her start saying you are talking about getting married or some lie, but let him know what is going on first though. If you don't want to do that then tell her she is to stay away, he is not interested and you do not appreciate her saying anything about him or the both of you. Good luck I hope I helped!
2006-10-04 15:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by tranquility 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be clearer in the point you're trying to get across. What I'm understanding is that this young lady likes you friend and may or may not have hitted on him. Unless you have personally witnessed her hitting on your friend, you can't based your decision on hearsay.
2006-10-04 22:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by danette e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is lying. I think that she hit on your boyfriend, he rejected her so she made up a lie so she wouldn't look like the idiot.
2006-10-04 22:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did she caused it on herself hitting on him in front of you. There's you proof right there. If around you he never acted on it maybe he's not interested in her. If she hits on him and he doesnt hit on her than maybe she did come onto him.
2006-10-04 22:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sexxy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instinct.
2006-10-04 22:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by I'm just me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep your friends close,,,, your enemies closer,,,,, watch your back door.....
2006-10-04 22:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋