he went through a divorce and we met eachother we have chemistry and he is such a lovely person...difficult situation because I got divorced not so long ago ...we spent great time together and we laugh so much ...he needed to go back and he was going to come back in 1 month ....things were going worse he got depress and he did not write so often as before....at the same times I was depress too....I felt very lonely and I was depress too......he travelled all around and he never came ...I have an e-mail from him asking me that he would be happy if he could comeback .......I asked him if he had someone in his life ....he said no ...that it was too early for that and he was healing ....I replly and said I was on the same condition...he hasn't write me back ...my questions is what you think about this situation?
2006-10-04 15:20:25 · 3 answers · asked by Yami 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As hard as it may sound...you need to move one. Find someone who can value all that you have to offer now...not when he heals. It sound like this guy is just keeping you on the side just in case something better does not come along. He is only telling you what you want to hear...but chances are, he has found someone else to comfort him. Women tend to over analyze the situation and try to justify it when it is not going the way we want it too...but we need to see it for what it realy is. I know, cause I have done it plenty of times and I was very fortunate to have had my friends slap me back to reality. Just cause you went though the same situation as he did, does not meen you both are feeling the same. When women are depress they seek comfort, when men are depress they seek a diffrent type of comfort if you know what I mean... Ask yourself this question...do you realy want to spend the rest of your life wondering and waiting when he really has not made any promis or comitment to you. The greatness about humans is that we are receliant. No one has died of a broken hart yet...at least not that I am ware of...Well, unless it was a medical reason the broke it in the first place...Start taking care of you and healing your heart...and if it is ment to be, he will come back. But don't stop your life waiting...cause he may not show up and you just might miss the one that does show!!!
2006-10-04 15:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mshell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont work yourself up maybe he's bizzy. Give him time to work thingout in his head. If you really like him and he like you maybe(maybe) he's waiting till his situation gets better so you'll can be together.
2006-10-04 22:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sexxy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's taking you for a ride. Dump him
2006-10-04 22:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋