I am willing but not sure if I am able. Sounds painful. Is it worth it,feels good? How long does it hurt? It obviously stretches you out,so isn't it hard to go to the bathroom normal? lol....I just want some advice...
2006-10-04 15:13:50 · 28 answers · asked by Holly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my advice start smaller then his penis to get use to the feeling let him use a small anal toy on you. GO SUPER SLOW USE MORE LUBE THEN YOU THINK YOU NEED. It took us about 5 tries to acually go all the way. It should not be painful at 1st it WILL BE if you are not totally RELAXED AND LUBED right or he goes to fast. I do like it now it took several trys over MONTHS before i was into it. I do think it's best to strt with anal play 1st just get use to that area being touched. I wish yahoo would make a ADULT ANSWERS and question area., YOU WILL BE ABLE TO USE THE BATHROOM AFTERWORDS the girl who wrote you won't 4 a day or two must have never had anal sex or her mans as big as a horse i've never had a issue that area we've done anal YEARS NOW! IT was more painful to me untill i get very relaxed and had a few drinks lol. IT CAN BE very pleasurable IF YOU LET IT, MEDICALLY I'VE never heard of it doing damage to the anal walls I'VE ASK MY DOCTOR.
2006-10-04 15:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I thought of that too. hehehe great minds think alike. I have asked and this is what they have told me. The guy must be gentle at first and yes will hurt the first few times just like when we first had sex. but that the sinsations are much better from the back and you will enjoy it much more. also that you can use like some type of small tube at first for the opening i saw that on a video suppose to help you I think there. but yes do try it why not he's your husband and you may acutally love it. and can do it more often. Just get through the uncomfortablenes first then you'll be revving and ready to go in no time flat
Remember no pain no gain
Enjoy bon a pe tite
2006-10-04 19:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-29 07:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, all that stuff about anal hurting is only true if
1. You don't use enough lubricant
2. The guy does not take his time & be gentle.
If you do that it should not hurt. Even the first time.
The bathroom part,
Your anus is like your Vagina it's made to be streched. Not as much as the Vagina but it can stretch alot. It's like illastic it won't stay streched after sex exactly like your Vagina.
Anal sex does not effect your anus unless you do it alot. You can get a thing called leaking anus if you do it too much. Which is when your anus is streched. Just don't do it too much & you will be fine.
2006-10-04 15:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by dif f 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is differen't. I find it painful, I've tried many times for years because people say it gets better but it still hurts. Some women can't orgsm unless they get anal, so try it out at least once. And yes, you go to the bathroom normal. And if you don't like it and your b/f is still persistant, then ask him if he's gay and he'll back off.
2006-10-04 15:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a lube and ask your hubby to play around in that area before putting anything in there. Otherwise, you will have a terrible time!
If you don't like the first experience, tell him it's exit only.
The blue films make it look so easy and arousing but the girls are well prepared for that. Before filming, they put a plug in there for a couple of hours to loosen up.
You won't be able to go to the bathroom for a day or two afterwords.
2006-10-04 15:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by Siddy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lubrication and lots of it. Not much worse than a large bowel movement. Not much in it for the female, make sure you get yours too. Massaging the area and leading up to penetration does help, must be a relaxed partner, and he MUST be willing to stop when you say so. He may not get very deep, but if it's not too terrible you may try again another time. DO NOT consider this if you have hemeroids.
2006-10-04 15:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Buttercup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a mans point of view I had to talk my wife into it but start out slow like a finger and then maybe 2 then a toy called the egg then u will be ready and no she dont complain about pooping and yes she likes the org. So take your time and get r done .You can do it!
2006-10-04 15:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
My personal experience was very painful even with a lot of lubrication. Anal Sex can cause alot of damage to the rectum, causing the wall between your vag and rectum to weaken, and it will have to be corrected surgically. and the Sphincter. If he's rough it might even cause incontinence. (You involuntarily make a mess in your pants.)
If you feel like you need to try something new then buy a lot of lube and have him go slow. If he's just looking for a "virgin tight fit" then go to your local adult shop and seek out virgin again cream, it causes the muscles to tighten up and its like being a virgin without the pain or blood of losing it.
2006-10-04 15:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hun of course it hurts, but like you said he is your husband you both have to do these that you dont want to do sometimes. It hurts like hell the first time, just use lots of lube. Try at least once a week, after a while it will be like another hole lol, you probably will like it. DONT KNOCK IT TILL U TRY IT!!!!!
2006-10-04 15:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋