hmm... i grew up not having any friends(outside friends) because my parents said i couldnt have any. and being a kid i tried to listen to them.i was homeschooled so i had absolutely no outside contact except maybe when we went to the store i saw other ppl but never talked to anyone cuz parents said dont talk to any body or even say hi, so i tried not to. then at age 14 i went to foster care for molestation by someguy(not my parents) for about a yr, and i had to go to public shcool for 8th grde, then i was returned to home. continued homeschooling till 10th grde and got ged. now i am18 n have a car(starting to disobey their rules alot) but i want friends and where i work theres a guy there my age who wants to be my friend and hangout play video games etc. and i dont know why but it seems kinda hard to be friends for me probably cuz what i was taught. like im not used to it and now its a lil hard to socialize and stuff i guess. i try tho and have hungout. i think i am a lil ****** up.
2006-10-04 15:08:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well to start off with it's unfortunate that you've never had friends... but there's nothing wrong with you... you just need to get used to being around people you don't know. As far as socializing goes it shouldbe rather easy... you just have to find someone your age that likes things you do, and then start there.... Conversations tend to go in a million and one directions- not matter where you start off... also you may want to let your friend know that you haven't had a lot of friends so that way if offend him or something he can let you know.
2006-10-04 15:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents were a little like yours except I went to public school but was not allowed to have friends over and I couldn't go to there house. I couldn't be in any after school activities or travel with the school like to singing contest. I still have problems making friends. I really only have one good friend but once I started working I did make work friends. If you still live with your parents do as they say but as soon as you can move out. It will be hard at first but you will love it in the end. I know I did. Good luck!
2006-10-04 22:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by lovedietdp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people can socialize because they had brothers or sisters. I was raised with my parents, and now that I'm older, after seven years, I am beginning to get a bit better at my social skills.
2006-10-04 22:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep been there done that dude just find something u like to do and then find the same friends and just party and fire it up and figure it out but rember 1 thing ur best friend is ur-self he wont ever backstab ya.
2006-10-04 22:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think that way. i'm sure you are not the only one thats living this. i think you should share this with your firnds and they'll understand and help you out.
2006-10-04 22:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by *cheesecake* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch...
2006-10-04 22:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by mover1799 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋