she seems to pick arguments over little subjects, almost as if what ever is availible for that day
2006-10-04 15:03:46 · 29 answers · asked by marco p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Time to dump her my friend!
2006-10-04 15:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jotun 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you're not alone in this.
i think one way to deal with this is for you both to recognise there is no one right or wrong in any situation, it's all perspective.
you need to start some honest and candid communication to talk about what really is bothering you two, so you can get a fix on things. if left unresolved sooner or later it'll wear you down and be the cause of your break up, and you don't want that.
act now, get together, have a time limit where you can be totally honest and nothing is to be taken out of context or used to hurt later on and just do you best at making yourself clear.
best of luck, it's worth doing and the benefits are there for the taking.
2006-10-04 22:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always respect one another, keep positive and if you truly love each other it will reflect in how you treat each other. I hate to say it but sometimes it happens for a reason and you may want to really look at your relationship more deeply as it may be best for you both to move on if the respect is not there and no one is willing to change.
2006-10-04 22:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by gillybomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, that is an awful phase of a relationship but it will get better, just keep talking about how you don't like to fight and ways to work it out that are different. Over time things shoud calm down once you're both in better communication with eachother.
2006-10-04 22:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by CR2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her what is really bothering her. Also ask her what you can do together to stop the arguments. Talk about it calmly and not condescendingly. Hopefully she will notice that and will give you the same courtesy and talk to you the same way so you can work through your problems.
2006-10-04 22:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by brattybard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA! I am so like that! But you know what you'll do? If your gf starts to argue, don't argue with her. Instead agree to everything that she says! See what happens. It'll be so funny! Because you two will end up laughing. Don't argue. Don't make it a big deal. Just agree.
2006-10-04 22:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication. Express how you feel, just like you asked in the question. Maybe she's not aware that she is doing it. Tell her it hurts you and that you feel its hurting the relationship. If she is aware that she does it, discuss with her ways that you can work together to make it stop.
2006-10-05 00:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by withallthesethings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to cut down arguments spend more time apart
absence makes the heart grow fonder
2006-10-04 23:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by beano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two spend to much time together and need to explore your separate interest.
If you could bear it, spend some weekends APART. You go to Vegas, she goes to Atlantic City.
Heck, it's worth a try!
2006-10-04 22:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by xman77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people like to keep something going the next time walk away and tell her to argue with her own self
2006-10-04 22:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to argue because the make up sex is awesome. My husband agrees. My grandparents argue all of the time and they have been together forever!
2006-10-04 22:06:17 · answer #11 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋