I am 18, married, and recently very depressed. My husband and I fight because I get so lonely and then I get angry at him- when it;s not his fault. He has friends, and things to do all the time. I on the other hand don't. In high school i never had to make friends a few people just sort of showed up and were around all the time- but after high school i moved away for a while and lost all the friends i had. I tried to get back in touch with old friends, but everyone's off on their own thing. Do you have any advice for me?
2006-10-04 15:03:33 · 10 answers · asked by NewMommy!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To answer a few peoples comments. I am married at 18 and I don't regret it. I am an adult- and for miss us smarty- i didn't get married in the US- I got married in another country at 17! if you guys could lay off the guilt trip on the only friend i have i would appreciate it.
2006-10-04 15:15:31 · update #1
The best advice for u is if u have any girl or guy cousins that are ur age or maybe at least 1 or 2 years older. Start to hange out with them. I'm sure that u will discover new friendships by doing. I did it and it worked for me! U'll start to know their friends and their other friends and so on....
2006-10-04 15:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going threw, I was the same way, I was stuck home all day and my husband made friends easy and I couldn't it was very depressing, I started taking some classes at the local college and it was very good for me. Try join a class of a club that is near by.
2006-10-04 22:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by kathy_B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you are depressed and lost touch with your high school freinds.If you and your husband fight,maybe you should go see a marriage threapist -with or without him and look at the whole picture-like "Was getting married the right thing to do at a young age"?If you wanna talk more,add me.I'll be your freind
2006-10-04 22:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by the_silver_tin_man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling after Highschool was over all my friends left to different college and the only "friend" i had robbed my dads house awhile back. So now i pretty much just go to college, work-out and keep a good attitude, i mean I have to meet some new friends eventually.
2006-10-04 22:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by mover1799 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the libary and find some friends ur age i was gonna say go to the bar but ur a kid so find a hobbie and teach ur husband to hit it better that way u got a smile on that lonely face!
2006-10-04 22:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you a little too young to be married!? I mean, in the US when you're 18 you're considered an adult, but I don't believe in that because it's only here.
2006-10-04 22:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
join a gym or club in you neighbor hood a part time job or something that should get things going
2006-10-04 22:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you worry about and you do pick your friends closely...at church there is a women...reading bible..at the community college...any two or one credit class...a part time job...pic your choice closely...
2006-10-04 22:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by lins 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talk his friends if they are male get friendly with them and get a job you'll meet new Friends
2006-10-04 22:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by smile030498 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 18 and married!!!!!!????
2006-10-04 22:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by Danyelle b 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋