Have you ever told someone that you loved them to only find out that they didn't feel the same even though you have had this incredible relationship for 8 years and now that they know...they don't want anything to do with you? I don't want to take it back..so how do I apologize for loving someone who doesn't want to hear it? any comments or suggestions would be appreciated!
2006-10-04 14:55:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i guess the "incredible" relationship you had for 8 years was only one way...any true "friend" would not behave as immaturely as your friend has. True friends can sustain "love" within a relationship regardless of whether the "love" is acted upon.
I'd say its not worth it to pursue, as much as you really might feel it is....if its meant to be (friendship, or more than) it will happen, no need to fester about it.
2006-10-04 15:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by zazza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done this crap before. You should guess that I'm a Gemini. If you still like him tell him flat out, no beating around the bush. When you threaten him you're basically blowing the airy guy away. We as Gemini are very sensitive to the truth. If you give us the "I don't like you routine", we take that as the truth. Once you cross that threshold it's hard, not impossible, to get back to the other side. We are the signs of the twins, so what twin are you dealing with now? Probably the not so nice one. What do you really want? You need to figure that out before making any move.
2016-03-18 04:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have to give a person space..never apologize for loving someone who doesn't loved you back. That's your heart & be careful who you love...because some people dont know how to love in return. It may be hard for you at the moment - especially since u opened up to this person. If this person is a real friend for 8 years...then you should have nothing to worry about. Live for tomorrow and never try to convience anyone to love u back. Life is too short and tomorrow is not promised to you. Remember this, never love with all your heart until that person loves you completely (unconditionaly)
2006-10-04 15:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be so harsh! But you can move on. You do not need to apologize for your feelings. They were (are) real and that is all that matters. It is the other persons loss, not yours! And the fact that they are unwilling to talk with you only shows that they are unworthy of your affections.
We all make mistakes in love and life. Count your blessings and move on!
I am in my early 50's and have regrets of my own. Not that I would change anything I have now in my life, but sometimes, I wonder.
None the less, I am happy with how my life has turned out. I have made my own decisions and am willing to live by them.
You too, will live later by your choices which happen now.
Peace and Blessings,
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2006-10-04 15:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to apologize. I am sorry that this is happening to you. It is so difficult when you fall in love with somebody who doesn't loved you back. When I have gone through something painful in my life, I repeat "I'm gonna be all right, I will make it through." Doesn't automatically fix everything but it does make you feel better over time. Remember that everything happens for a reason. Be kind to yourself and feel better.
2006-10-04 15:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Rhianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should apologize for being honest to someone that you care about. If this person doesn't wanna talk to you because you expressed your feelings let it be your friends problem. Don't apologize, to me you did nothing wrong.
2006-10-04 15:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever apologise for loving someone and, don't expect to be loved in return! If it's there you've made it otherwise, I'm sorry to say, move on!
2006-10-04 15:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jimbo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have absolutely nothing to apologize for.
You can't control how other people feel or what they do. It is really sad that your relationship had to end in this way. However, you should hold your head high and move on to someone who will appreciate what you have to offer and will love you in return.
2006-10-04 15:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels great to love someone and to be loved back. It's great that you have spoken your truth and your feelings and that's what is important. To have someone return the love is not as easy but let them go knowing that you care and they may return the feeling but don't expect it.
2006-10-04 14:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by gillybomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no reason to apologize for your true feelings
or the other person for not having the same feelings for you
this happens in life the best thing to do is to tell this person you have had a great 8 years and you understand that they do not feel the same
let them know you can not change the way either of you feel but that does not mean you can not continue to be what you are now
or at least friends
if the other person can not go on then you must go on
this is just one of those bumps in the road of life
as long as you deal with it
in a mature way you will come out of this better and stronger
good luck and never apologize for your true feelings the truth is usually the hardest road to go but it is also the only way to go
2006-10-04 15:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't deserve an apology. Just walk away with your head held high.
2006-10-04 14:58:45 · answer #11 · answered by zia269 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋