IM 21, MARRIED AND BEEN TRYING FOR 6 MONTHS I DONT USE PROTECTION OR BIRTH CONTROLL HELP!!!!!
2006-10-04 14:39:41 · 22 answers · asked by SAM A 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
a good bottle of wine, and a wild side! worked for me 3 times!
2006-10-04 14:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm in the same boat as you. I'm 22 married and have been trying for about 10 months. They tell you it takes time, but when you really want a baby, it feels like forever! I know my husband and I are both fertile so that isn't the problem, but they say that after 1 year, if you aren't pregnant yet, you should go to the dr. to see if one of you has a problem. Stress can also really delay getting pregnant. The ovulation tests work quite well I hear, so try getting one of those from walmart or something. Have you ever been on Babycenter.com? It's a great site for women who are trying to get pregnant, are pregnant and mom's. There is chatting and information that helps out a lot. The chatting really helps me because they support you and you can talk to them about anything. Good luck to you!
2006-10-04 14:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by speedy_me18 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get pregnant is making sure u chart your most fertile days. U will have very little discharge, that is when u are not fertile. The days leading up to ovulation u will get some kinda thick clear or very light white discharge that is not all that stretchy. You most fertile peak is when u are ovulating and most fertile..u will have a lot of wet discharge that will be clear and very slimey and stretchy*it will resemble snot sorry* After having intercourse preferably missionary position lay a pillow under your bottom and lay flat on your back with your legs elevated in the air for about 10-15 minutes. A mans sperm count is much higher also if he wears boxers instead of briefs and such. Some women such as myself can actually feel ovulation also. It will be sharp stabbing like pains or cramps on either your right or left side. I used all of these methods with my second baby after only trying once * and my periods are very irregular*. Try these out and u will have a much greater chance of conieving your little one.
Good Luck!! =)
2006-10-04 14:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first thing is first. Relax, if you cannot relax and are stressed that you cannot get pregnant your body can feel that stress and its only going to make you more upset and make your husband upset too. I suggest you do this. Have sex a couple times a week if you have it everyday your husbands sperm level is not going to be full force. Next, try pin pointing your ovulation days, or your most fertile days, usually 4 days before you ovulate and even the day of or after. Sperm last in the body for up to 7 days. I got pregnant right away with my first, but for my second it took about 4 months. I to was stressed but you gotta remeber to relax sex
is not a chore and you should make it fun! God has a scedule for you to get pregnant! Also I suggest looking at this web site. Very helpful in pin pointing your ovulation days. Ovulation Calendar.com I believe. It helped me! Good luck!
2006-10-04 14:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by colinsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax. Don't try so hard. You can only get pregnant when and within so many days of ovulation so that could be part of the problem. If you are having sex non stop then your husband my have a low sperm count and needs a break to get his sperm count back up. You are still young you have plenty of time to have children enjoy your marriage now and when the time is right it will happen. I wouldn't worry too much unless you aren't pregnant in a couple years then you might want to see if there is a problem but just enjoy the trying and focus on having a good solid marriage now.
2006-10-04 14:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by snail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well fiirst of all dont listen to these people giving their negative opinions because its the last thing you want to hear! It took my parnter and i about 8 months before i fell pregnant and we tried and tried but best thing to do is not to stress! we stopped trying all the time and kept sex down to like twice or even once a week also we got a ovulation test which calculates you ovulation and stuff then once we did that first try and it happened!
having a child is a blessing for those who can and is the most wonderful you can experience! Goodluck and i hope everything goes well for you and have fun trying!!
2006-10-04 15:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by Gemma W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sam, dont stress it doesnt happen sometimes straight away are you calculating your ovulation times are you regular with your periods... You can see your local doctor and tell him that your trying and he will able to give you some options and if nothing happens there are tests to see if there is something medically wrong which you can be referred to. Then it will be alot of understanding between you and your partner as he will have to have tests too.... Relax and enjoy the fun of trying. If you were on the pill for a long time that takes awhile to work out of the system for some women. There are alot of factors that can arise as to not getting pregnant. It took me 5 years of trying with my first child and she was conceived by the IVF. Since her I have had 2 beautiful boys.
2006-10-04 14:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get pregnant is act like you don't want to get pregnant and you'll get one. Lol.. believe me! But you are 21.. you got pleanty of time to have a baby. But if you are really set on having a baby, you need to find out your ovulation time (your fertle days). I think they have an over the counter ovulating monitor you can buy next to the pregnancy tests.... But I would put the brakes on that really. You need to have someone else's baby for a day or two and see if that is what you wanna be dealing with forever and a day.. Hell, you can have my baby if you don't believe me... lol....
2006-10-04 14:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to know if and when you ovulate to maximize your chances!
The only way for you to know if you are ovulating is to take your basal body temp each morn, same time and before you get up. You should see a pattern in temps that leads up to and after ovulation. You can get the basal thermometer at Wal-Mart for about 8 dollars. I use a wonderful FREE website called Fertilityfriend.com...it graphs your temps for you, keeps track of your fertility signs, tells you when you ovulate and also tells you if there is an implantation dip in your temps. You can also use Ovulation prediction kits, but they only measure your LH surge and give you a ball park time for ovulation...they do not pin point it. Oh, and it is possible to be ovulating while you do not have your period, just like it is possible to have a period and not ovulate.
2006-10-04 14:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you want to try to figure out when you are ovualting, and have sex 2-3 days before that! one way to figure it out, is two weeks after the FIRST day of your last period is average for someone with a normal 28 day cycle. Your most fertile days are 18-23 days before the first day of your next period! It is not easy to get pregnant, on average your chances of conception are 20%. so most importantly relax, stress does not help, and dont try every single day, you'll lower his sperm count.. try charting your ovulation at www.fertilityfriend.com Good Luck&Baby Dust
2006-10-04 14:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dr said it takes up to a year so you are fine .. just assume it will happen
Also there is no scientific research to back this up but I read about it and tried and got pregnant that month .. drink a cup or 2 of raspberry tea
good luck and baby dust
2006-10-04 15:16:53 · answer #11 · answered by iamblessed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋