i want to settle down and find a boyfriend but unfortunately you dont always get what you want right when you want it. so how do i come off as more of a girlfriend kinda girl?
2006-10-04 14:19:05 · 7 answers · asked by SweetChildofMine 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Consider guys more seriously. Don't rush into what you hope is a relationship. Just take him as friend for a while. See if he can be a friend first. Don't explore his "animal" side too soon. Don't bother going out with those you meet at bars. They are not looking for girfriends there. Now, if a guy went to a bar it doesn't rule him out as a possibly good material. However, is he met you there, he pretty much ruled you out as a possibility. It is kind funny that way.
About dressing up. If you are running around in clothes that looks more like lingere than clothes and scream "sex" into guys eyes then yes, you need to wear a dress or pants, but other than that - dress attractively. Don't expose, but don't cover yourself up completely like a nerd. Your dress needs to say "Attractive woman. Mother of potential children."
2006-10-04 14:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This may sound corny but if a guy really likes you, you'll probably get along really well together (almost like good friends, except with a physical attraction). Like, you'll be able to just hang out and talk and it will seem fun. Also, guys usually lose some respect for a girl if she puts out too quickly (guys always want to do stuff, and to be honest, most guys are not too choosy when it comes to just a hook-up type girl, but if he really likes you, he'll wait awhile because guys are much more selective when it comes to having an actual "girlfriend").
2006-10-05 13:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by red7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a sIut. Turn off the "i'm easy" vibes and actually start looking at men for companionship, and not just for the night. You will probably not find someone right off the bat, just make some guy friends and find out who they are, not what they wear, money they have or people they know. Take your time in choosing a man you want to see everyday, kiss and tell them you love them. Go slow and don't just pick a guy because of something superficial.. like his ride or pickup line.
2006-10-04 21:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by vulpix_z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try and pick up on guys at bars or clubs.
Don't sleep with them on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date.
Don't dress like a Hoe (you know what I mean)
Just be yourself and don't put on a show....then you'll find someone who is looking for YOU.
These statements were not intended to offend, piss off, or otherwise bother anyone. They were simply a partial list of "don'ts" that the writer has come up with in her own single mind to try and nab the right guy for herself.
2006-10-04 21:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by maat13101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop looking for a boyfriend, it only makes you look desperate! Focus more on what you want to do with your life and do it! The right guy will come along when you are doing something you truly love, and no that doesnt mean doing it with a guy that you hope loves you.
2006-10-04 21:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by kristen b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably your search will endlessss
2006-10-04 21:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what wrong in hooking up ??
any takers ??
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2006-10-04 21:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by Big R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋