1. Would you support a close friend/realative with an abortion? Would you go with them?
2. What about if it was your daughter?
3. If your life was in danger? What if you didnt have other kids already,would you still terminate?
4. Would you make any exception to have one yourself?
Just curious to see if the other pro lifers are really pro life or more like pro life BUT sometimes pro choice
2006-10-04 14:13:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Ok lets see... Go with them, no. I would make it clear where I stand which is opposed. After it was done however, I would do my best to comfort them (still not accepting it but being there for them and let them know I still love them)
If I had a daughter that was doing it... well im not sure what your asking but no I still wouldnt support it. She made the choice and got pregnant and has to accept the new life she is bringing into the world. I would help her take care of the baby and send her to college or be there for her is she did get an abortion (still not supporting it though)
If my life was in danger then no I still wouldnt get one, kids or no kids. God has charge over my life and I trust the outcome. I would understand why couples would choose to have one in that case but I still think its wrong. I wouldnt judge them though (Im trying not to judge anyway because I have no right to)
Finally no I wouldnt make an exception for myself. I can understand why it would be tempting at times but I still believe its wrong and unfair. I dont believe anyone is an "accident" and that we are here for a reason. So basically I think there is no place for abortion. These are my opinions.
I also agree with cutenwild1769
2006-10-04 14:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by A* 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe it is a choice between a woman and her God. I used to work with pro-life groups back in the 70's. I was used at times by the mothers who would lie to me so that I would care for their children while they slithered off to get an abortion. I got attached to the kids and had to stop. I did not like being used.
Now I have a different approach. The only reason I feel so different is in reading Sylvia Browne books on Life, God, and the other side. I now know that a soul does not enter the body right away. I also know that God gives us free will to make our choices.
I also know that women who get abortions live with it the rest of their lives. They mourn the loss (whether they will admit it or not) forever. Some ruin their lives because of it. Others have ruined their bodies so that they can no longer have children. Why take that risk?
I feel a woman should pray and make the decision along with the father of the baby. If the baby is deformed and will live a life of hell it may be better. But a perfect child should have a chance to live.
I love kids. I would take all the unwanted kids out there If that was possible. Why not give birth and use adoption? Couples in the US as flying to other countries to adopt and we need help right here.
2006-10-04 21:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If someone is truly Pro-Life they would not terminate the baby no matter what the problem be.
My cousins girlfriend was told because of a disease she was born with if she ever got pregnant she would have to abort because she would be putting her life in danger but at the age of 21 she got pregnant due to BC faliling and her doctor told her she needed to termiate her pregnancy or she could die but she refused to do it. She had a healthy baby girl 3 months early but both mother and child survived and now the baby is 4 years old and totally healthy.
2006-10-04 21:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1) yes I would because its their decision to make, not mine and even though I am pro life, I still care for them and want them to do what they feel is right for them. Not going isnt going to change the fact that they will have an abortion and I would never give up a friendship over it.
2) if it was my daughter, I would try to talk her out of it and explain to her if she were to have the baby I would raise it myself if she wanted nothing to do with it. I would go with her to make sure she was safe and everything went ok, but I wouldnt support her in her decision.
3) if my life was at risk having the baby I would terminate it because if I was at risk for death, then my child wouldnt survive either so it wouldnt really make much difference....but...if I knew getting pregnant would put my life in danger, I would do everything I could to prevent getting pregnant in the first place.
4) I dont think I could ever do it because first off, I am happily married with no reason to and I believe if you get yourself into the situation, you deal with the consequences. I would only have one if I was raped because I dont think my husband could deal with raising a child born from rape and I dontknow if I coule either.
2006-10-04 21:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes i would go with someone who was close to me or a relative they do need support regardless of what my beliefs are.....i still would try to talk them out of it...but once the choice is made its out of my hands...I dont care how old my daughter is when she gets pregnant...id love her no matter what...again i would try to talk them out of it but if i couldnt...id love and support her either way....If my life was in danger of having the child...i would not have an abortion...god wants this baby in my life regardless he gave me the chance to become pregnant and if im supposed to die so someone else can live then so be it...i wouldnt make an exception for myself ever...if i become raped and pregnant id still have it..(ive been raped before and i know how hard it is) i can imagine what it'd be like to carry the baby full term but i would give it up for adoption...i cant choose someones life for them...just love and support everyone..
2006-10-04 21:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If someone was pro life they wouldnt be considering terminating it.....#3
2006-10-04 21:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jaymie 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I feel the one and ONLY reason for abortion should be if the baby is so deformed or has such a handicapp that they will not have a life.
2006-10-04 21:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by luv2bawifenmom 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OK< but if you had 7 children and this pregnancy would leave them motherless, what would you do???
2006-10-04 21:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by justme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i woulden ti think its not your choice if that baby lives or dies our you god if you our olde enough to get prago your old anough to raise it or give it a loving home with some one who dose i couldnt go with some one no couse i lost my baby and there killing theres thats how i fill
2006-10-04 21:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by c_wilke22 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
0nly if it were her life at risk or she were raped .. and she would have to really pray about it beore hand
never would i abort
2006-10-04 22:31:27 · answer #10 · answered by iamblessed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋