do i believe in love? or better yet.. should i believe in love? i am sure love exsists however.. i dont believe it is possible for me. though i thought i might have it.. apparently i did not.. i guess in alot of ways i simply convinced myself that i had. when i most definetly had not. i think what hurts the most is that i was (and at times still am) convinced that i had found my soul mate. i was willing to change everything in my life for this person. sacrifice all i had to in order to facilitate our future life together. i felt heartbreak(and still feel heartbreak) for the first time in my life. i thought i had been sad before.. but i was wrong. this is sadness.. there are momentary breaks in the sadness but at night when i go to bed and lay there alone with no one to share my day with. the sadness is almost to much to bare. i have so many great and exciting things in my life but the one thing i truly want... doesnt want me. that is quite possibly the worst feeling
2006-10-04 13:52:16 · 11 answers · asked by Enigma 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thank You from the bottom of my heart. maybe in time I will find some one
although right now in my life it looks hopeless, but I will try to carry on
I didn't know that so many people could
look at my words and see inside me.
you all must be well researched
2006-10-04 14:33:00 · update #1
The best way to fill the emptiness in your heart is to start a relationship with Jesus Christ. Remember that whatever happens, God is in control, and has a plan, and everything happens for a reason. Its good to know in the trials of life that God is there and no matter how hectic and bad it seems it will get better. A good quote I once heard that really helps me in life's tough times is "If God brings you to it, he will bring you through it. He will either lighten your load or strengthen you back." Pray to God to help him show you who he has in mind for you. And trust in him. Believe me it will work out fine.
2006-10-04 13:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up hope and don't put yourself down. Just because this man did not stay doesn't mean you are destined to be alone. I do understand exactly what you are feeling because I've been through a similar situation. Be confident in yourself knowing that you have a lot to offer. Work on improving the gifts God has given you. Most of all, be patient and trust that God will bring you the right person in time.
2006-10-04 14:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Grace A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you are not the only one. Personally i believe all us females and few males all feel this way at one point if not MANY points in our lives. U prolly dont care cause this depressment is about U but, trust someone else will come along. believe it or not. it might take some time til u find some else worth being with... but it will. just think about those that are in their 40's that have NEVER even had a boyfriend!
2006-10-04 14:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't wrap your life in a man. The only way you will fill that emptiness is if you love yourself dearly and independent and enter a relationship as a whole dont look for a man to complete. a relationship consist of 2 whole working together.
2006-10-04 13:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sexxy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, time heals old wounds. Nothing wrong with feeling lousy for a while.
The winners are those who fall off the horse and jump back on.
2006-10-04 13:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by shakopcool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey I know it hurts right now, but in time things will get better. I know it doesnt seem like that right now, but it will. Time is the best healer.
2006-10-04 14:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by kibbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be with your friends. They will help you through this
invite them over, keep yourself busy. I felt the same way when my first love and I split. Then I met My husband. It will pass.....
2006-10-04 13:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are limiting yourself to one man.....there are a helluva lot of men who feel EXACTLY like you.
You will find the one who is meant for you when you start to love yourself......
Be patient. God is waiting for you to grow up....But he has NOT forgotten...
2006-10-04 13:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by e_guanajuato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly is the question??? If you feel pain, than that is love so believe it is real and it will find you again.
2006-10-04 13:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should send Ur "Emptiness" to music producers. They'll make a great love song.
2006-10-04 13:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by daisy770 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋