so last night some big dram thing happened at our softball game.. my mom basically called my supposed friends mom a slut and accused her of wanting to sleep with my dad and told her to f---off.. so this morning my supposed friend writes me via myspace and tells me thanx for all the bs drama u immature little b---- thanx to u your pyscho mom went off on my mom blah blah blah and this just goes to show how trashy you and your mom are.. blah blah blah.. so i wrote her back and told her to stop being jealous get over yourself u and your mom deserved it blah blah blah and last but not least i said "if me and my mom are so trashy then why is she married and your mom uses her finger?" well my dad found out and he wants me to show him and my mom what i said and what the other girl said.. so what should i tell my dad so that i dont get in a lot of trouble? granted i should have just ignored her, but it makes me mad when ppl talk about my mom..
2006-10-04 13:47:30 · 18 answers · asked by Dulceata 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him you were defending your mums honour
2006-10-04 13:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a good start; telling why you got mad; you get mad when people talk about your mom. Next, face it! All of us get mad at various times in our lives. And all of us say things that are hurtful and even stupid. But, the real show of strength is to apologize and move ahead in your lives. Anger all the time just eats up people inside. Apologies are not easy, but they are better in the end.
2006-10-04 13:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are going to just have to bite the bullet and tell your parents the TRUTH. You can warn them before they see what you wrote that you are ashamed about what you wrote and that they are not going to like what they see but you are going to tell them the truth..and then do that. Unfortunately your mother may have caused the problem that you got dragged into ..so tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may ... families need to stick together, even when things go wrong...
2006-10-04 13:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by MeInUSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you blew it. Don't compound the problem by trying to get out of it or creating a lame excuse. Step up and take responsiblity for your behavior even if you have to apologize. Tell your dad that you made a mistake, you are sorry and it will not happen again.
2006-10-04 13:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH my goodness girl some of this @hit is funny but you need to tell you dad the truth you don't want anything coming back to you why did your mom call her a slut any ways did she say or do somthing? does she really want to sleep with your dad?
good luck girl
2006-10-04 15:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your dad that your mother seems to be jealous of your friend's mother for some reason. It should be your parents' concern and not yours. Your friend is the one who was being immature by insulting you, and she doesn't deserve your friendship.
2006-10-04 13:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i should just tell them what u wrote if u lie it will make things wayyy worse and u will lose there trust later on they might think wow she was totaly honest with us even tho she did some wrong too and she didnt try and hide it they will probley respect u more because u didnt lie u kno they probley will find out if u do lie...and that would just make things worse
2006-10-04 13:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by ... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and show him what she said.. cause u were defending your mom anyway.....but she is accusing u of causing the outburst from ur mom..... sooo the question is are u responsible.. did u tell your mom stuff.... that some serious drama for real..
2006-10-04 13:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you have to stay out of this as much as possible. This is a tough one. You may want to talk to a counselor about this...
2006-10-04 13:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show them what you and she said... only the truth will help... people say things out of anger towards others.... but if you try to hide something now it will only come out later.. so it is best to be honest upfront about everything..
2006-10-04 13:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did what you did, you can't change that.
The last thing you need is to lie to your parents and make it worse, you'll just lose their trust that way.
Take responsibility for what you said.
2006-10-04 13:50:57 · answer #11 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋