I had woken up but hadn't opened my eyes yet. I heard him open the dresser drawer where he has his t-shirts & we also keep the condoms. The condoms r in a lil tin can w/o the lid on it. The tin can was pretty full but not overflowing. I heard noises like he was digging/messing through the condoms. When I opened my eyes he had already closed the drawer & was putting on his shirt. I didn't say anything. He came to lay with me 2 say goodbye & asked if i was going 2 have breakfast w/him at his work. I said yes. (on weekends he's the ONLY 1 at the office. I hurried up & got dressed to go meet him for breakfast. I was there in about 15 mins. He didn't know I was going that early. I didn't call him to tell him I was on my way. When I got there I called him to open the door. We went to his office & when he sat down his zipper was down. I told him ur zipper's down he said oh. I noticed his belt was gone 2. he sed It buged him. He sez it was a coincidence. He wnts 2 get married. He's the best.
2006-10-04 13:45:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well until you have more solid proof you might want to keep your eyes wide open. Count the condoms in the drawer...keep count of them...and surprise visits at his job may be in order...9 times out of 10 if you suspect he might be cheating...he is...be aware of his whereabouts at all times...pay attention...if you notice he's becoming more and more agitated with you and wanting to no discuss facts that should come easily to him...Dump him...DON'T Marry Him Until you KNOW he is NOT cheating!
2006-10-04 13:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're contradicting yourself. You think he may have been cheating on you, but you also said he was the best?
My thoughts are, if he was going to cheat on you, he wouldn't want to get married to you. If you really think he is cheating on you, move the tin of condoms to a different place, or count the ones in the tin that are already there. That way, he will either have to ask where they have gone, or you can count them if you think he is sneaking them out of the tin.
Another approach, be straight forward with him, ask him if he cheated on you and tell him what you suspected. It can't really hurt. If you know him well enough to get married to him, then you will know when he is lying or not. See if he gets nervous, or change in voice, complexion of his face, ETC.
I hope this helps you, good luck.
2006-10-04 13:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he ask you to get married right after the "coincidences"? That might not be a good sign.
It could be a series of coincidences though it does seem rather incriminating. Has he cheated on anyone in the past? Those who have cheated before are more likely to do it again.
Just see how he acts for the next little while. It might be time to talk to him about it.
2006-10-04 13:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Adrianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are completely overreacting. There is no reason to think he is cheating. Why would he invite you to breakfast and know you were coming to his work if he was planning on cheating at the same time! That just doesn't make sense. If he hasn't given you a reason in the past to not trust him then don't create reasons.
2006-10-04 13:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Julie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is terrible having thoughts of concern. Asking him directly is not always the best way. Men are chronic liars. May I suggest counting the condoms. If your sex budget doesn't add up at the end of the week. Now you have facts to confront him, have your bags packed. Tell him he is not worthy of your love and leave the scoundrel.
2006-10-04 13:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously not the best. When a woman suspects her man is cheating, he usually is.
Do a bit more investigation work but certainly I wouldn't be marrying him until you can be certain he is not cheating.
2006-10-04 13:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If "he's the best" why are you asking this question to us? Either you know you can trust him or you don't know it. Don't marry if you don't trust him. It ruins what might have been a good relationship. On the other hand if he is not trustworthy, don't waste your time and emotion on him.
2006-10-04 13:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by Texanborn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already have came to a conclusion. The evidence you give, and the way you word everything seems to say to me you know you cannot fully trust him.
2006-10-04 13:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by dizman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 19:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by ouelette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody's cheating. Why do girls love guys that treat them like crap? Sounds like somebody needs to re-evaluate IN PERSON, not on YAHOO ANSWERS. Nobody here can 'help' you, just have some guts to stand up for yourself. Weather you leave him or not is not up to me. But if it were me, I wouldn't date somebody like that. Guess I just think things through.
2006-10-04 13:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋