I live by this gurl Jane*, and we used to get along until about a week ago. She has an older sister...i heard them talkin on the bus and her sister said "i'll punch her if she does anything else mean!" She said that cause me and Jane* had gotton into a fight online. She thought she new who i liked and told everyone. I don't want her to be mad at me, but i don't wanna call her, cause of her sister. Wat should i do?
2006-10-04 12:56:52 · 9 answers · asked by elise(= 4 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
She is the one that did wrong telling everyone who you like. SO just send her an emailand tell her you want to make amends, but don't trust her with that information in the future!!
2006-10-04 12:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Reddy... but also keep in mind that her sister has NO right to even lay a finger on you!!! Plus, you already heard her say "I'll punch her if she does anything else mean" and... that's a threat.
Tell her that her friendship is important to you but the way she went blabbing her mouth was really shady of her and not something you would expect from a friend.
Ask her if you guys can talk and make amends... but make sure you've made it perfectly clear that her blabbing was WRONG and there is certain information you won't be able to trust her with until she earns that trust back.
Be mean if you have to - I mean, she ran to her sister like a sissy so , you have every right.
If that doesn't work - then you get to be the blabber. Tell the whole school you made her mad online and she went running to her sissy for protection. Neither of them can touch you and if they do... they're in for it...
Good luck hon!
2006-10-04 20:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by apinkfreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the oldest of 3 sisters and we are just naturally over protective of our little sisters. She probably didn't mean she would punch you. She was just consoling her little sister and responding to her sisters pain. I promise......Once her sister forgives you, she will too! If you don't want to call her, then email her. If you don't want to email her, then talk to her at school when no one is around. If she is not receptive then "F" her, she not worthy of you anyway. Real friends can have disagreements and respect one another opinions and get over it. If she was really your friend, she wouldn't have told everyone who your secret crush was.
2006-10-04 20:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gyrl, Call Your Friend... If she really means anything to you nothing and nobody would be able to get in between you and her... I was dealing with the same thing and its my best friends GF that is in the way... So go after your friend tell her it was a big misunderstanding.... If she is Your True Friend she'll see whats up... But don't approach her on some B! tcxh type $#!t... Approach her like a LADY......
Ladies don't start fights...But they Can Finish them.... ;-)
Things will work out fine.....
2006-10-04 20:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by Big B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh she told everyone who you like without your permission. You have a right to be mad at her.... unless you're not telling the whole story. Yes, call her. Talk to her about it and if her sister gives you **** say that your trying to fix it and beating you up isnt gonna make your friendship any better.
2006-10-04 20:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your friend and tell her about how you feel. If your always afriad of what someone ealse (like her sister) will do you you then youll never get anywhere in life. you should sit her down and tell her about how you feel or if you cant do that call her.
good luck :)
**p.s. if your really scared of her sister dont ride the bus and she if you can get a parent or someone to drive you :)
2006-10-04 20:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Reddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg this happened to me so many times and since i didnt realize to fix my mistake i lost a friend pretty much. you have to do something now!! tell her sister to shut up and say u wanna talk to jane. . .or do on IM. or if u r confident tell her at school in person!!
2006-10-04 20:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by heyitspreeti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm,well,family bonds can be strong,it would probably be better to let it go,otherwise you will be fighting a losing battle and risk making it worse
2006-10-04 20:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by Laila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her sister to.' Bite you' and to keep her own nose on her own face.
2006-10-04 20:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by always 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋